After effects

Well as we have mentioned and shown some of the videos we made on Saturday when we had the day to ourselves. Tonight Thomas decided to take a picture of my bottom. Of course in the video my bottom wasn't that bad. That was before the trip to the garage for the stress relief. It had the effect we were after. Stress relief was the goal. It really didnt relive it all but it sure did make my spirits higher and made me feel a little better. Here's a picture of my bottom now 2 days later.



At first when he grabbed the frat paddle I told him that a paddle wouldn't faze me. One or two swats later though I was changing that tune real quick. A full force swat with a wooden paddle does tend to hurt just a bit lol. But it made our session alot quicker then I had thought it would be.

This weekend we will be short a child as our oldest son is spending the weekend at his mentors house. My son is happy to claim two "DADS" now. (Thomas and his mentor) He still has some heart wrenching moments of sadness over his real dad. So technically he could claim three but his real dad pretty much cut him off about 5 years ago. He never returns any calls or letters. Which is pretty nasty if you ask me. Regardless of anything that happens between two parents none should ever stop all contact with a child if the child wants it. That is just wrong. I think that hurts them more then never knowing there father would. But such is life and I can't make him call or talk to his son. So I just try to make my son feel better letting him know that he is loved by many and that his father is the one that is missing out on a very wonderful thing. Some days are harder then others for him. I shouldn't let him even try but I always hope that one day he will come through and not disappoint the boy. I really don't know what else to do other then be there for him when he is let down again.

With that we will be having more time to make some more videos. Hopefully with the help of a little arnica we can be ready for some more video making by the time we are left with the one youngest who goes to bed pretty early. Leaving us plenty of playtime.

Anyway not a whole lot else going on. Thomas was contacted by another implement maker that wanted him to review a paddle or two of theirs. So we might soon be doing another promotional video. We almost had our air fixed tonight but ran into another problem. Now instead of just being out of the coolant the outside unit isn't running the fan. That really blows though since we really would have loved to have AC right about now. In the last videos we did we had to have fans running. The heat is pretty bad lately. In fact the thermometer on the AC unit reads over 95 the highest it can go I believe. So I know it is hotter in here then that. Well I'm heading to bed. Hopefully we will have more and more videos to share soon. We would like to soon get some better quality cameras for taping. But things are pretty tight right now. But as always they are fun to make and the playtime during is even more fun.

Paddle Master Products promo videos

Okay guys as promised here is the video that Thomas and I did for Paddle Master Products. I can't tell you how much fun yesterday was. We really enjoyed it greatly. I am a little sore today from the session last night in the garage for stress relief. But it is all good. It did what it needed to do.

The first video is straight video but in the second video I take some still pictures as well as a few of the moments from the first video and include some pricing and other information. Enjoy

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Now these videos do not show all of the products available from Paddle Master Products. But it is a good indication of what he has to offer. There are many other items at the stores website. He has 15 different paddle designs that are now available in two different materials. He has paddle stands and cases. He even has some bondage gear and furniture. So check out his Products today. There is something for everyone I am sure.

As I said before I am a little sore today. The session in the garage was with a frat paddle and it hurt like the dickens. It made the session shorter though as right away I almost didn't think I would survive after the first strike. But I made it through quite a few more as well. Thomas didn't hold anything back either as he knew what the goal was and how hard it is to achieve for me. But he did achieve it and quite fast I might add. It didnt take as long as I thought it would because it was so intense right away. And it made a lasting impression today. It hurts to sit for to long.

As you can see we had a ton of fun yesterday. There will be more chances for us to make some more videos soon. After I heal of course. We will probably work more on the Cookie challenge as well. After all the stress we have recently had it was a very welcomed day that's for sure. I feel alot better emotionally even though I still have some emotions over my daughters recent outbursts and decisions.

A Wonderful Spank Happy Day!

Today has been a wonderful and busy day for Thomas and I. We had the opportunity to spend the majority of the day kid free. We took that time and worked on some of the upcoming videos we have promised. One video we worked on of course was our entry to the 2009 spankingtube challenge. Our entry isn't due until next Saturday but we weren't sure how much time we would have before it was due to be kid free. So we jumped on the chance to have the whole house to shoot the videos in.

I really liked how they all came out and we had quite alot of fun. Right in the middle of our filming though when we were taking a short break. We got a knock on the door. It was the mailman bringing us a package. And guess what was in that package. A new strap that Cane-iac has come out with that they wanted our opnion on. It was a great day for it to arrive. We made our videos then took the time to test out our new strap. Ill explain more about that in a bit.

Now I can't give away any of the secrets about our entry though. I will tell you that it was a whole lot of fun. Thomas and I haven't had this chance in a long time. So being creative and having some spanking play really made our day. And we got our video ready for voting next weekend. Speaking of the contest. The first round winners have been announced and here is the winning video for that for those that missed it. Make sure you get to Richards blog this week though and vote on the next two videos. The voting should start on Sunday and end next Thursday. It was a very close race this time. Both contestants did a wonderful job. Here's the videos for that round the winner being the first one. Enjoy





So remember to go to Richard Windsor's blog and vote for this weeks contestants. And the week after that will be our video along with another couples video. Each week I will share the videos after the contest and announce the winner as well.

Now on the juicy details of our day. I am currently as we speak working on editing and saving the videos we took for Paddle Master Products. I most likely won't have the actual videos to share until tomorrow or Monday but I did take some still shots that show just how much fun we really had today and this was only a fraction of the fun we were able to indulge in all day. And later tonight since we have gotten some videos out of the way we are planning on taking the time in the garage after the kids go to bed to have a intense stress relief session. At least now we don't have to worry about any markings that may come of it ruining our videos since we already have them done.

Now without any further delay here are a few still snap shots from some of the video making play. We had a blast. When the videos are approved and ready I will do a post on Paddle Master Products with the videos and everything. As you can see it was a very fun spank happy day. The pictures were captured from the video so they are not the greatest quality but it does show that we had quite a bit of fun today.



























So watch in the next couple days for the video. Hopefully it will be ready tomorrow.

Now the "Double Wham" from Cane-iac. When we opened this package we were a little surprised about it. It was a very different strap then we were used to. We decided to wait till after the videos to try it out. Thomas was a little leery about the safety of it when he first saw it. It had metal on it and said the heaviness of it made it seem like it would be difficult to control. The disc had to be placed at the right spot for it not to wrap or cause unwanted pain or anything. When we were ready to use it he practiced in the air first before trying it out on me. He was still a little iffy but gave it a try. At first there was an extra screw on near the handle and it kept hitting my side and hurt. So he removed that and continued. He started to realize the disc that were on kept folding over before it hit me. So I was getting hit with a folded disc. We decided to take the disc off and use it as just a regular strap. Which is a very neat feature of this strap. You can adjust the disc or just remove them in general. Thomas really liked it then. He was a little thrown with the disc added to it though and we probably would not ever use them. As a strap it is a new and unique idea but just not our cup of tea. I really like that we can remove the disc and use it as a strap. It is worth checking out at Cane-iac though and as always it is another one of their products and we highly recommended them as a spanking implement maker and provider. We are always happy with the items we have from them. here's a picture of our newest strap with the disc on.
Actually the lighting was not the greatest but it is all I have for now. I will check out the website tomorrow and see if I can snag a better pic of it for you.

Plain Jane

Things around here as far as the kinky side have been pretty vanilla. At least for me. Thomas did get away for a little on the third to meet with s friend from Atlanta. I couldn't go along because of the kid situation but hopefully soon Ill be able to see here again. I meet her before at the SOS party and she is very nice.

I recevied my package today from Paddle Masters. So I am hoping that we get a chance to play some time soon. I really could use it. We will be making a video with our Paddle Masters products so watch for that soon. I got a view ideas for it.

The fourth was spent out almost all day. We got up and headed to the parade. It lasted about two hours so we all were pretty burnt in one spot. The kids enjoyed it though and got alot of beads and other things that were being thrown from the floats. They actually had quite a few floats passing out water and freeze pops. AS hot as it was that was a really nice treat.
We came home after the parade and quickly got our bathing suits and headed to the nearby springs for a picnic lunch. The springs were packed naturally and we ended up waiting in the car line for over an hour before we even got in the springs. After the springs we went back home grabbed a few quick things to eat even though most were not hungry since we got such a late start at lunch.
We then headed to the mall for their have a blast celebration. We walked around for a little bit and the kids watched a concert. Some kid singers that the kids got CDS and autographs of. Our littlest one was able to get a balloon and during the rock concert right before the fire works he caught a glow necklace they were throwing out.
We put our blanket down on the parking lot that was closed off for the fireworks. Then started watching the fireworks. After the fireworks were over we headed home to set off our own fireworks that we had purchased. The kids enjoyed the bottle rockets and most of the works we had. By this time it was 11 and time for everyone to head to bed.

I was hoping that after the family activities and when the kids were in bed Thomas and I would be able to make our own fireworks but that didn't happen and who knows when it will again. That kind of thing is so few and far between lately. I am hoping to have the kids cared for on Saturday for most of the day so Thomas and I have free rein of the house for some play and videos. Ill let everyone know if we do. I look forward to trying out my new toys at least.

Happy independence day

Well today I am off celebrating with my family all day. I wanted to wish all my readers a very happy fourth of July. Hopefully after our special spanko day yesterday many of us spankos will be celebrating with different fireworks tonight. I'm not talking about the kind that are explosive although spanking certainly can be defined as explosive at times. Its a wonderful thing. I sure am hoping that Thomas and I will end up making our own fireworks in the garage tonight. LOL.

Anyway I just wanted to say Happy fourth of July. It is a wonderful holiday for us. Remember as well to thank anyone you know who defends our country. I am hoping that while we are engrossed in all the fun family things we all do on this day we dont forget what the day means. Take care. Happy Fourth of July.

Today is a special spanko day

Todd and Suzy from the blog American Spanking Society developed today as a special day for us spankos. It is consensual spanking day. What is that? Well click on the picture below for more details. Here is a snippet of what Todd and Suzy have to say about it.

"Consensual Spanking Day is designed to put spanking in the positive light it deserves. Be it an actual spanking, exchanging a spanking gift (like an implement), reading a story, talking with a spanko friends… the idea is to do something spanking related, feel good about it and be proud that you’ve been bold enough in your life to pursue something that often is not understood by our vanilla friends."



So for today I would like to share a very special social network that is dedicated to us spankos. It's spankolife. I joined a little while ago and have been enjoying it ever since. It is a great place for like minded individuals to meet and to share their lives open and honestly with other spanko's. I sent out a few invites to some of my messenger friends that I know are spanko's. So in honor of today being consensual spanking day I would like to invite all my spanko readers to join. The Cherry Red Report wrote a nice post about it as well. The graphic you see here was borrowed with permission from the author of the cherry Red Report. You can read his post here. . Click on the picture to be directed straight to spanko life where you can sign up. I hope to see you there. Remember to add me as a friend as well. I love to meet and connect with my readers and other spanko friends.

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However you decide to spend today or to celebrate this wonderful thing we do. I wish you the happiest spanking day there is. And as Bonnie from my bottom smarts has suggested a good way to celebrate would be to start a spanking blog yourself. I know it is a wonderful thing and there are many spanking related blogs around.

And if you desire to celebrate by buying a new spanking implement I would have to recommend anything from Paddle Masters or cane-iac. These two places are my all time favorites for spanking related materials. just click on the little pictures with their logos and it will take you to there site so you can have a peek around. I can guarentee if you purcahse any items from either one of these places you wont be disappointed.

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As far as other news not alot happening so far spanking wise. I should receive my new paddle either tomorrow or Monday. I can't wait to see it and try it out. Lee said if I like Lexan I will like this as well. Tomorrow we are planning a family picnic. The Fourth feel on family day so we have decided to have a picnic then head to the festivities in our town. We havent decided everything we are doing yet. Its been rainy and stormy everyday so I hope it will stop at least for our picnic time and the fireworks. It will be our last family night with all of us together. My daughter has decided to explore her other side of her family. So she will spending the last years of her teenage with her father. I have been very emotional lately over this but I assume it will get easier.

news flash

Lol sorry I am not the greatest with titles. Just wanted to share some news for now. We will be working on a few videos coming up in the nest few days. One of course will be our entry into the Internet spank off. Or the spankingtube gots talent contest. We will also be workng on a video for Lee to use on his website Paddle Masters. He is sending me a very new paddle he has. It is made with a new material and it will be a new shape called the cheekster. Of course we still need to continue with the cookie challenge as well.

Family life though has been really hectic as our daughter is giving us a big run for our money. Shes driving us insane with her newest bout of things. I have a feeling she might be spending the next two years in her room. Teenagers are really a handful. I dont have any clue why they call two years the terrible twos. It should be the terrible teenyears. Two years old are hardly terrible. Anyway on to the good stuff.

I am really looking forward to the new paddle. Lee likes to keep things surprises so I don't have alot of information as of right now about it. But I will soon have the paddle and all the information. All I know currently is that it is pink and it is made from a new material. The shape is a new shape called the cheekster. I really recommend that you check out his website at Paddle Masters. He has a variety of things for spanko's. Thomas and I have been getting our thinking caps on for these videos. We are going to be doing one for Paddle Masters as well. Of course we will have the new paddle for use as well. But it will be fun coming up with a spanking themed commerical so to speak lol.

As far as our entry video I wont be giving away any secrets on that one. Only that we are scheduled to have our video go up by next Saturday. There was currently only 6 entrants so he broke us up in to three groups. The first group should have there videos up on the tube as well as the voting place. I believe that votes will be taken from Richard Windsor's blog. So look for the first match of videos from Bill and Sarah versus Calicutie and Mr Kaufman.

And just for fun I am going to share the Santa spanks the bride video again since I wrote about Richard Windsor as well as Lee from Paddle Masters. If you listen carefully you will hear me being told that I was getting spanked for Lee's handiwork. His spank me panties that I am wearing. Enjoy.

Gone from us but not our hearts

Today is a difficult day for my daughter. Two years ago she gave birth to a stillborn. Her baby would be two years old today. I always feel bad for her around this time because I don't know her pain. She was a young mother that had to go through carrying the child for six months then giving birth knowing she would never be bringing her baby home with her. So this post is dedicated to my granddaughter Jocelyn Marie. Even though you aren't with us in the here and now you are forever with us in our hearts. I just wish I knew the right words to say to her to take the pain away. But I guess that is something that will hurt for a very long time.

July 3 is Consensual Spanking Day

Todd and Suzy from the blog American Spanking Society have founded a day for us spankos. July third is marked as consensual spanking day. They wrote a post that you can find here that details the reasons for this special day. It basically comes from the bad light that the media has given us and wanting a chance to give our community a chance to stand together and be united for at least one day out of the year. Although I am sure that most of us dont need a special day for spanking I believe it would be a great thing if we can ever get it made a holiday that is acknowledged by more then just the everyday spanko's. I would have used there banner if I know how to do that. Thomas is at work so I can't really ask him but I will just link to the post where they talk about it. So it is just around the corner and hopefully there will be lots of spankings going on that day.

New affiliates

Before I share my new affiliates I wanted to re share this video from the false start for the cookie challenge. The lexan is my favorite implement but it was a bit hard to take that day. enjoy



As some of you have already noticed I have added a few links to my sidebar. These are a few new affiliates I saw and I like the variety that they have. There is pretty much every kind of fetish out there and I wanted my readers to have more then just the spanking sites to look at. There is a few spanking ones as well that havent been featured on this blog before. Elite spanking is one that I really like as well. Take a look and join some if you havent already. I myself like the bondage ones. That's why there are so many of them lol.

1. Amatuer Bondage videos

2. Bondage auditions

3. Bound 4 you

4. femdominas.com

5. fetishclub

6. Elite Spanking videos

7. My Kinky Diary

8. Pain Freaks

9. Perfect spanking

10. Punished Angels

11. Pure Spanking

12. Real Bondage Videos

13. Rick Savage

14. Chanta's Bitches

15. Fucked and Bound

16.Twisted factory

17. Captive Male