Question and answer

I recently received a question in my chat box from Cougar's girl. So I thought I would answer it a little more elaborate here on a post. It's a valid question I have gotten often. Her question was "you share your man with other women? and your okay with this?" I kind of left a short answer on the chat box but it is a situation that many ask about and very few understand. Myself included sometimes. For those that read my blog on a regular basis and have seen it evolve from beginning to end have seen the relationship that Thomas and I share go from being playmates once a week to now being a committed couple. There have been alot of changes from the moment we meet till now two years later. And one issue that comes up alot is the issue of poly. Its a concept that I didn't understand when I meet him though knew somewhat what I believed it to be. My feelings and attitudes regarding that though have changed and I understand it a little better then I once did before. I can't say that I am 100 percent okay with a poly relationship though as I still have some feelings and issues regarding that. I have always been monogamous and still hold alot of those values though I can say that I do lean towards poly alot more then I did when i first started out. I still have alot to learn about it and I haven't embraced the sexual side of it as far as being intimate with others. Although many define intimate in different ways. Yes I do share my man with others to a point. We are spanko's so it is only natural that we attend spanking parties together and sometimes not together. In that way I share him because it would be a pretty boring party for both of us if we didn't play with others. Why spend money and travel to do something we can do in our home anytime we want to. Parties would be pretty pointless if we didn't play with others. So he also shares me in that way as well. Thomas was my first spanking experience but since meeting him I have been spanked by many others. So really that isn't an issue in either of our relationships, Spanking play with others is a part of our beings and it is mainly just that spanking play. Now when I first meet Thomas he was living with Joyce. He has never hid that fact and their have been a few times that we went our rounds with that as well as his playing with others. At first I leaned towards not being able to handle such a thing and there were times that our own relationship suffered and the possibility that I would leave came up some. But with that being said Thomas and I worked these issues out together. Not at all easily sometimes. But with communication, trust and an understanding we worked out these issues. I can be okay with this side of him because of an understanding we have as to how far and what that kind of play or other relationships detail. We communicated our feelings together and set certain limits for these encounters. Now is where the trust we have with other comes into play. I have to trust that when he is away from me and playing with others that the bond that he and I have isn't broken by pushing and going beyond our set limits with this. IS it easy? No it isn't easy but it is workable and makes being okay with it all that more easy. Thomas has many others that he has a relationship with. Some I know the other person(s), some are only online contacts, And one is of course Joyce who I don't have my own relationship with due to some things she has done. I don't particularly care for her and her ways. But that has no barring on Thomas and her relationship that was there before I was. granted I am sure that their relationship has changed a bit due to ours. But for the most part his being in her life as I told him as long as I don't have to be around her and he doesn't bring the children around her then I am fine with his relationship with her. I am not as cold hearted as I want to be sometimes lol. I understand that she has had to lean on him many times for things since she is visually impaired and there are certain things that he needs to continue doing for her since she cant do it herself. And of course they have been roommates for a long time so there is a special bond between them. I want Thomas to be happy and content with life and if sharing him in some ways makes that happen then so be it. Now I can say that if I would have reason to believe that his outings or play becomes more then what we have agreed upon without prior communication then yeah there would be a problem. Not just because of what was done and being with another but because of the broken bond and trust that we have with each other. There is a whole lot of love and caring in Thomas and mine relationship with each other. I get alot more out of it then I would care to give up for jealousy. Our relationship is really good and that won't change because he talks spanks or spends time with other people. In the end I get way more from him then anyone else so I can't complain much about that. In any relationship poly or not it takes love caring understanding trust and communication to make it good. Thomas and I have that. We have alot to learn together and quite a journey ahead of us and there will like all relationships be certain bumps in the road. But I am quite confident that we will overcome most and all of those and we will have a long and happy life together.

Halo

From time to time I come across a song that I really like. Beyonce has alot that I can relate to and like. Her new song though really hits me at home. It tells a whole lot about how I feel about my relationship with Thomas. It's called halo and it is very pretty and most of the lyrics fit how I feel exactly. This is my new favorite song *giggles*.




Not a whole lot to write about. I really miss Thomas but he will be coming home today so I can't wait. I am sure he will be spending alot of time catching up on the Internet. But he did mention that he would be home in time to splash around in the pool with the kids. Hopefully soon Ill have some fun spankings to write about. We need to start the challenge back up. This might be a good time soon as I found out he wont be called upon so often at the other house as she will be out of town for awhile. So Ill have a few more nights that we can get some play or something in.

Saturday with the kids

Today started out real well the kids and I got up and we went and had breakfast. I had another bagel with very little cream cheese and the kids each had one as well. My daughter and I finished up some of the cleaning then we all headed to the pool. I did a few laps in the pool. I actually did very well this time. I got out of breathe a little but not with the tightness and not being able to breathe like an asthma attack type. It was just the normal kind. I didnt have to use my inhaler after wards. I took things slow though after about four laps I took a break and caught my breathe then went again for another four. Floated around in the pool with the kids some then we all went into the house to exercise. We turned it into fun. My daughter was trying to teach me some dance moves and we took turns helping each other do sit ups. I managed to get in 10 my daughter made it to 7 then had to stop. My son made it to 13 but cheated a few times. lol. We were going to try to jog in place for a whole song but I couldn't make it. I had to stop and take a breather. The kids made it through the whole song without stopping. I had to stop twice and begin again. We did some more sit ups and goofed around with crazy aerobics not sure that they were really any kind of areboics moves but we had alot of fun together and we were being active so that counts for something. We were going to do some more sit ups then my daughter decided to do some push ups and wanted me to do them with her. I got up and down one time though lol. I must not have alot of strength in my arms at all. So we just ran in place some more and goofed around then when were all hot and sweating we all decided to go jump in the pool again. My legs and arms hurt right now lol. You dont realize how out of shape you are till you try things like that. I did a few more laps in the pool with my daughter then we floated some. And I got out. And I am now writing this post lol. The soda drinking has gone really well. I am surprised. It is alot easier to stop soda then it is cigarettes. I havent even had the urge for a pepsi today at all. when I get thirsty I actually want and get water. The only thing I noticed was that the water goes through me alot faster then the pepsi did for some reason I go to the bathroom alot more now. But that is probably a good thing. Its kind of weird how only after three days I do actually feel so much better. The medicine is really helping me with the activities part. Keeping me less out of breathe. Even Thomas noticed that the first day I started taking my medicine like I should that when I woke up in the morning I didnt have to reach for my inhaler like every other morning. My moods been alright and I havent had the hunger urges as bad either. And I have had alot of fun spending the time with the kids being active. I have to go and find something to eat since I havent eaten since the bagel this morning and I heard it isnt good to not eat even though I usually do skip breakfast and lunch I just snack throughout the day before. I havent lately I am actually only snacking with some applesauce and when Thomas gets back home Ill be going grocery shopping for some fruits and my lowfat yogurt that I love. Well I just wanted to give everyone a heads up on whats been going on and how I am doing with this new adventure. I emailed Suzy and she gave me some suggestions. I started writing a journal about what I eat and things at her suggestion so Ill get a better look at what I am doing though I dont know all about counting calories and all that. Ill probably get to that soon. I'm off to eat something and spend some more time with the kids. WE are going to have a movie night tonight. So I wont be on anymore tonight.

Randomness

LOL I really need to work on my titles some. But anyway I have a few things to write about today. First Thomas will be away this weekend for an amtgard event. So the kids and I will be missing him. The weather is supposed to be nice so we already decided to make a day of swimming on Saturday and have a movie before bed. My daughter and I will be working on doing the weekly cleaning tonight so we have all day Saturday to relax and play at the pool and the park. Yesterday though was kind of funny. My son got home from school and if it is nice weather and I feel like sitting outside with him I let him get in the pool for a little bit. When his sister came home she didn't feel like swimming but sat outside with me. The boy was swimming in the pool but he quickly ran out of the pool after coming face to face with a snake. He was yelling that there was a real snake in the pool. (He has a fake snake that he plays with in the pool). His sister didnt believe him at first so she went to have a look. I looked over to where she was going and saw it myself. I quickly jumped up on the nearest chair and that is where I stayed for a little awhile. After my daughter first saw it and screamed and jumped they both decided to try to get it out of the pool. I just stayed on my chair. Snakes are not my thing. My 12 year old has a fascination with them and wants one as a pet. I wont let him anytime soon. Anyway it was a small snake but a snake nonetheless. They got the broom handle and flung it out of the pool. I really freaked then because it came very close to me and I have a big fear of snakes. I was yelling get it out as it was slithering around the patio heading for the open patio door. They aren't as scared as snakes but still were being slow and cautious and jumpy when it was slithering around. My daughter managed to sweep it around till she got it out of the screened in porch area. I felt better enough to get down off the chair and head into the house. Needless to say the swimming was finished for the day. I am still a little leery about this weekend. Snakes seem to really like this area as we saw a big one a few times in the front yard and one in the back yard on our way to the park behind us. They just give me the creeps eww I hate snakes. But I am sure that any neighbors that saw and heard that little snake episode probably got a laugh out of it I am sure we looked pretty funny.
I dont know what possessed me yesterday to weigh myself but I did and I was really disappointed in my weight. I knew that I had gained quite a bit of weight since being with Thomas and i didnt know how much but it was about 60 pounds in the last two years. So last night I decided to start trying to lose some weight instead of gaining it. I have never had this dilemma as I have usually remained below my average weight for my build. I was once told by a doctor that I needed to go on a diet to gain weight. I guess now that I am older and things aren't as intense in my life like before my weight is catching up to me. Admittedly though since being with Thomas there has been alot more trips to McDonald's and fast food places and things and I actually eat as before I would usually cook something quick for the kids or I was working two and three jobs at a time and not having time to really eat. I don't really know where to begin. I have decided to cut out the soda in my life. I drank Pepsi all the time and usually could drink a two liter or more a day. I didnt drink any yesterday and switched to water. Last night though I started to get a massive headache and still have it today I am thinking that it might be caffeine withdrawal or something like that. But I am still going to stick to the water. I heard that if you are trying to lose weight water is one of the best things for you. I dont know though. I can't really get into a very strenuous exercise plan or anything because of my asthma. I can only really just watch what I am eating and start ordering salads or something when we go out to eat. I can walk at night with my daughter and things but jogging or an exercise program wouldnt do me any good as id end up in the hospital after the first few. Swimming with the kids might help some. But I am definity on a mission to get back to the size I used to be before. I still have a few nice outfits that I cant fit anymore that I would like to get back into. I used to be a size 8. I am not that anymore. So wish me luck. I wonder how long it will take for the soda withdrawal to go through as these headaches are killer. I take tylenol but that doesn't help much at all. I am not one to take alot of medicine anyway so I pretty much just grin and bear these things. I do have to watch though as I get migraines and when I do I get physically sick as well. And I have a feeling this headache will turn into one real quick. Light and noise and all that is getting to me and hurting my head. So today for now I am resting in the dark drinking my water. I did have a glass of grapefruit juice this morning and got some daily vitamins to take to see if they help any. I have a really nice cake that is so tempting at the moment as well. I had a small piece after dinner last night and as much as I want to snack on it right now Ill limit myself to one small piece again tonight after dinner. This morning I prepared myself a bagel. I usually eat one with loads of butter and cream cheese. I did however decide today to not use the butter and I barely used any cream cheese. Just enough to get a small taste of it with the bagel. Usually the cream cheese is more then bagel lol. I am already in Todd and Suzy's diet yahoo group. So Ill be posting soon about my new adventure and asking for some tips. I doubt Thomas will be much help in the issue as he likes his girls to be on the thicker side and he doesn't see my weight as a problem. So I have alot of new changes coming about. The taking my medicine the awareness of my eating habits and the stopping of the soda. I also have to get used to water as I dont like it very much at all. But I am doing all right so far. ill keep everyone up to date on my progress though. As far as spanking goes there isnt much to write about that either other then a brief caning this morning as I awoke in a foul mood and gave Thomas a hard time about things. He expects me to jump up and take the medicine and things and I wasn't even ready to get up this morning much less move around and get myself a drink to take medicine. He got me out of bed quickly though it wasn't in a happy mood way or anything.

warning....conversations lead to spankings

Last night Thomas and I were talking online since he had things to do at the others house. In our conversation it came out that I really need to take my medicine like I should so I can play with the kids more. Yesterday when I was swimming with my son I got so winded that I couldn't make it to the other side of the pool without losing my breathe when my son wanted to race me. Thomas then decided that the issue with my taking my medicine was something we needed to add to the discipline part of our relationship. Granted I wasn't to happy about that as that wasn't my intentions on telling him. I only meant it as conversation I wasn't asking for help or anything like that but in our relationship that doesn't really mean anything if it is something that he deems as important enough to monitor then he will regardless what i feel. Such as the smoking, yes I did ask for his help but then decided I didnt want to quit although he wouldnt back down with that and it came to where it wasn't my choice anymore after a doctor told him that I had to quit. I quickly started my defense on the medicine issue. For me while yes the medicine does help me breathe easier it also has side effects that I really dislike more then the occasional asthma problems. He wasn't hearing any of it though and he set the rules that I will be taking my medicine as prescribed or be feeling our "gift" until I do. Last night when he got home he asked me about the medicine and what and how often I had to take it. I couldn't really lie about it but I really didnt want to take it. I took the singular fine when he found it cause I was avoiding the questions and saying I didnt know it's been awhile since I took it. So he just found it and read the instructions. then handed me the pill. The advair was the one I dreaded as it taste really bad. It is a inhaled form of a steroid and taste nasty. Not only does it taste nasty and has to be taken twice a day the advair or the singular or both messes with my moods and cause me to be very edgy and nervous all the time. It even physically cause me to have the shakes like most asthma medicine does and makes me very hyper feeling. So I pussyfooted that around as long as I could though he decided not to let me anymore and took me to the garage even after I said okay Ill take it. I didnt take it fast enough so regardless I was getting spanked for it. So when I said Ill take it he said yes I would after I was spanked and he led me off. I still kind of tried to get out of it but not to much as I knew that would get me more. He quickly pulled me over his lap and proceeded to give me a dose of the "gift". He paused to scold me some about the importance of the medicine and I didnt argue anymore as I knew it was pointless. He again gave me another dose before stopping and telling me that the last 10 would be counted out with a sentence. I had to count them out saying "1.. I will take my medicine Sir. 2.. I will take my medicine Sir" till all ten were dished out. That was the hardest part as it was harder I think then when he does it continuous without the counting. I havent taken my medicine for awhile now some of it is because there was a time when I didnt have insurance and really couldn't afford the medicine and the rest is because I dont like the side effects and the nasty taste that stays in my mouth from the advair. Now I don't know what is going to be worse. The spankings if I dont take it because it isnt habit and I will certainly forget sometime, or the spankings from the mood swings it will cause me. It really makes me edgy and I snap alot easier then I do without it. So i am kind of in a no win situation. I'm damned if I do and im damned if I don't kind of thing. The only thing that might help me through it is the spankings though oddly enough. Usually I could snap and not worry about anything other then feeling bad for snapping. Now Ill have a sore bottom as well as feeling bad. And the prospect that I might get a spanking might help the moods even if they are drug induced lol. I dont know. I know that spanking relives alot of stress that causes the moodiness as well so maybe that alone will help combat it. I do have a feeling though that it could be a long and painful road to get there. I need to start being more careful about what I say to Thomas I suppose. Although I am pretty sure it would have eventually came out anyway when I had an asthma attack and the doctor would have told him the same thing. Then I really wouldnt have had a chance to argue that. If a doctor says it then It has to be done in his book.

nothing much lately

Sorry I haven't written in a little while. There hasn't been a whole lot to write about lately. Family life has been a bit hectic for us. I have been busy all day getting all the kids into doctors and what not. Last weekend when my 12 year old was home we had a little episode with our daughter. Apparently some issues from her past have been creeping up with her and she had a flashback. She scared Thomas and I and I know he felt at a loss just as I did. While he knows how to handle me in the same situation it is a lot different when it is a teenager and your daughter. I cried and was almost ready call an ambulance for her myself. Thomas kept me and her pretty calm though through it. It hurts though to see your child go through things like that. And it hurts more when you can feel her pain and know what she is going through. Her flashback was probably a pretty vivid one though from her reactions. Today I was talking to a friend of mine and they gave me a link to a place close to us that handles those kinds of issues. I was able to get an appointment for next week. Next week will be a very busy one for me and I have to keep the car almost all week to get the kids to all their appointments. So I probably wont have alot of time to get on the computer. Thomas and I havent had alot of playtime either but I am hoping that we can get some time soon to try out the new flogger and play a little. On Sundays we try to have family days and do something with the kids. After Thomas got home from his Sunday fighting adventures I suggested we go and try out the new ice cream place down the street. It opened up recently and when we got there it was bright pink and purple on the inside. It was a candy shop as well. They had a few flavors of ice cream the kids and I took our time deciding. My son made his choice really easy and choose a chocolate ice cream cake kind. my daughter opted for the "Superman". It really was just vanilla ice cream dyed red and blue and yellow. it was quite colorful. I choose the cotton-candy flavor. I was hoping for raspberry or bubblegum flavor but they didnt have that. Thomas I was sure was going to pick the mint chocolate chip flavor. But he opted to try out their "Cookie Monster" flavor. This was a bright blue colored ice-cream. I forget what all flavors it was but I know why he choose it. lol. The youngest and me didnt have to worry about turning colors from our ice-cream but my daughter and Thomas ended up with a very blue mouth and teeth. lol. Thomas also had to call me today to let me know that the ice-cream comes out a different color. I was like thanks I didnt need to know that lol. Anyways I am hoping to get some play in soon real soon. As soon as I do I will write about it. I should have some time tomorrow to write a little I havent decided what yet but I am sure that something will come up spanking related that I can write about.

Take time to remember and thank our soliders

This morning I got an email from a group I am in. As some may know Thomas and I attend many spanking parties in Atlanta. They are all hosted by the same person and the group is SOS (spankers of the Southeast). There is a special connection between Thomas and the host of these parties. She has been a very large part of helping Thomas be who he is today as far as a spanker. But with that she also is a very special friend of his. I have been to quite a few of her parties and I think she is a very special and dear person. She's is very friendly and has been nothing but helpful and accepting since I have known her. She posted in the group that she wanted everyone to remember the soldiers that are still out there fighting this war. Her brother was deployed last week and while they know he is still alive they have no clue where he is at. I don't have any family that I know of or am close to that would be that involved as to being deployed or anything so it isn't that close to home for me. But in hearing a friend ask for thoughts and prayers like she has it does make you feel something. She posted a link to a video and I wanted to share it here as well and ask that my readers take the time today to remember and thank a solider that they know for all that they do. I am going to quote Leelee on this one as she said it beautifully.
" So please watch this video and continue to remember those that are still
out there fighting for our freedom. It's not their choice to be there, but
they continue to do so. I want this war over so our loved ones can come
home for good. "

Thank A Soldier | Viral | SPIKE.com

And please keep Leelee and everyone else who has loved ones out there in your thoughts and prayers. And for any readers that are soldiers or have loved ones that have soldiers you are in my thoughts and i thank you for what you do.

The ceremony in slideshow

I know I already posted about our commitment ceremony on March 28th at the Texas Allstate spanking party but last night I was sent some more pictures from RG also known as Zed from the blog Zed and Ginger. Thomas was also able to get some of the video on a host. We can’t post the whole video though because there are people in view that we know don’t want their picture out there so we will keep that for personal use. But here is the ending part of the ceremony where Thomas kiss’s and spanks the bride.

I also have gone through the new pictures and have a few id like to share again same thing as before but at a different angle from a different photographer. Thomas and I can’t thank the people enough that went way out to make this day a very special one for Thomas and I. First I didn’t get a chance to share the wonderful door hanger that was made for us.

I also have a few pictures I didn’t have last time with the decorations and wedding favors that my kids and I made.

I have a close up of one I took at home as well. Last night my daughter who is currently grounded from TV and internet for a little so she was bored and decided to color with her brother. She made Thomas and I a sign to hang below our certificate of commitment that we have hanging in our room.


So here’s a few more pictures of the wonderful day that Thomas and I exchanged our vows. Thomas will be posting our vows sometime on his blog. But for now here’s a few more pics in the form of slideshows as I walk down memory lane once again lol. Enjoy
The cake and the decorations

The Ceremony

Cutting the cake

The reception and photo opps

Spanking the bride

The Easter Bunny and the Cookie Challenge

Last night since it was Easter and I wanted to have some play and do a video as well we did go to the garage to play. I was talking to him online since he was at his other house last night. I told him I wanted to do a video and he asked me what I wanted to put in it. I laughed and told him that I had bunny ears and that I wanted spanking of course. In talking we decided to do the next part of the Cookie challenge in bunny ears lol. So I got dressed up in my school girl skirt and knee highs and wore the rabbit ears. We started to do the challenge and video it with me in my rabbit ears as well. Thomas called me a goth bunny lol. He set up the room and then we started. He wasn't kidding when he said that the swats would be hard. The first one really got to me lol. It was quite painful from the beginning and I was starting to think that I would be calling red after just a few lol. But I held out for a few swats. But Thomas stopped after a few I wasn't counting so I dont know how many and I havent seen the video yet. He stopped because it brought blood and we really dont get into spanking to that extreme. When I went to the bathroom I noticed that there was those cane marks again and where I had started to bleed there was a very noticeable cane line as well. I showed Thomas and he said it was an impressive cane mark though lol. I was a bit perturbed though as the cane marks that keep surfacing again and again are from a discipline session back in December. I was caught smoking and recevied a pretty severe caning for it. If I recall it was 20 strokes with the nylon cane. At the time though I was really sore i hadn't thought that it did much but hurt like the dickens. But a few of the cane marks from my right side took forever to go away and two haven't gone away yet. Although the marks faded they reappear sometimes when we get to spanking play. And last night with the lexan brought out one I havent seen in awhile. I am thinking that maybe that soreness is also the reason that the lexan hurt so much last night as I don't recall it hurting as much before and I tend to enjoy the lexan. I was starting to get used to the hairbrush as well but lately that hurts more then usual as well. I don't know the reasons or what happened last night as I usually can take alot with the paddles even the lexan. I was holding in alot of the pain last night though and was determined to last for a little while at least for the challenge lol. Hopefully I can go and get some more arnica and just start giving myself a arnica rub every night hoping that will help it heal better. I dont know when we will get the chance to do the challenge over again though. Joyce has changed her schedule at work to include him staying over there four nights now instead of the two he usually does. He will be gone Monday night through Thursday night now. Which means I will only get to spend time with him on Friday Saturday and Sunday night and those nights tend to be pretty busy and spent with the family and the kids. So I don't see a whole lot of play going on anytime soon anyway. The only good thing about that is that I don't have to worry about him cuddling and things. I have been a little upset at him the last couple of nights one of the reasons being that he chooses to spend more time away from us and a few other things. So I havent felt much like cuddling and being all close lately. I have recevied a nightly dose of the "gift" or the hairbrush paddle we have which gets me to cuddle for a little while but as soon as he is asleep I roll over and get comfortable. I guess Ill be glad to have the bed to myself almost every night though. I have a playdate tomorrow if all goes well. The person that Thomas and I had meet awhile ago and I have scheduled some time together. We went to the movies and then out to eat the other night and he asked if we could get together on Tuesdays since he has off work. I am hoping to get a motorcycle ride soon from him. Hopefully the weather is nice on Tuesday and he can bring the cycle. He is a photographer for the lifestyle but hasn't had much experience as a spanker or anything as far as that is concerned so we are going to arrange for him to practice or get used to it with me. There are a few things that we both want to try and he seems like a very nice guy and I think we will experiment a little together. WE are taking it pretty slow though as I am shy and really not used to this whole idea of poly yet. Him and his wife are poly though and he is used to it and has talked to me some about it just as Thomas has. it still feels pretty odd to me but Im willing to give it a try and he seems to be really nice and gentle and not to pushy and things. We will see how tomorrow goes though. At the movies we talked a little about the videos that Thomas and I do and it was mentioned that he could video tape them for us. I was always a little bit concerned about someone else being there video taping things but if it is someone that I also play with it wouldnt be quite as big a deal I dont think and we could probably get some better videos for our blogs and things. Specially when we get a chance to do the challenges. This way the shots won't all be from one angle or anything and we can get more. We will see though like I said I am new to this whole thing and tomorrow will be the first time we play together at all. We have gone out together but havent really gotten to the play part yet. So I am hoping that later before Thomas heads to his other's house he will get a chance to show me the video from last night I am sure we will share it as it was a special Easter one anyway though it was cut very short due to the bleeding. But such is the spankos life I guess lol. Well I am going to go and rest it has been a very busy week and weekend. The kids are finally back to school so I can get some much needed alone time and rest.

Happy Easter

I just wanted to write and say Happy Easter to everyone. We spent the morning doing an Easter egg hunt and giving the kids their Easter baskets. The kids went swimming for awhile and we all headed to the park. Thomas and my son played some basketball and my daughter and my other son and I went and played some tennis. We all got really hot from playing so hard so we headed back home and went swimming some more. I took alot of photos from the kids decorating eggs to them hunting them and swimming but I can only share a few here since I wont share photos of the kids on my blog. I didnt get Thomas a basket but the left over candy I put in a bag for him and I to share. I did however get him a special bunny this year. he loves Reeses peanut butter cups so I found a bunny that was named the Reester bunny. It was a big peanut butter cup in the shape of an Easter bunny. I took a funny picture of Thomas after I gave it to him. LOL I was taking alot of pictures and ended up getting chased by Thomas because I kept taking some of him. lol I have one pic I took as I was putting my hand up in defensive before he went after me lol. I even took a picture of him getting his own soda out of the fridge and drinking it lol. In our house that is a very abnormal thing. Usually he just tells me liquid refreshment meaning he wants me to bring him one. Everyone had alot of fun and we had a good Easter. Thomas is taking the middle one back to his mentors house right now but I am hoping that maybe later we can have an Easter spanking or something lol. It will be awhile till he gets home though as it is a four hour drive. But by the time he does get back it will late enough that the kids will be in bed so we can have a little Easter play in the garage. Might even try to have it video taped if we do. Im not promising anything but hoping lol. Anyway here are a few pictures of from Easter enjoy.



The kids Easter Baskets. As you can see they have a bucket full of candy lol. They will be pretty hyper for a little while.


Thomas and the Reester bunny


my 9 years old basket


my 13 year olds basket


my teenage daughters basket.


Thomas getting his own drink lol.


And here's Thomas drinking that drink lol


here's Thomas threatening me for taking the pics lol




Here's the pic where he went to chasing me lol. Like my hand would actually stop him lol.


I had a great Easter and I hope everyone else did as well.

finally the birthday video

I went ahead and posted the video to the tube although Thomas hasn't gotten around to editing it so it is as it was lol. Usually hell cut off the beginning and ends were we are going from and to the camera but I didn't want to wait anymore. Told you I am stubborn and impatient sometimes lol. There is not a whole lot to report lately as far as spanking goes. My son is home and spending the holiday with us so I will be pretty busy with the kids all weekend. But I'm leaving you this video to enjoy while I am off having family time. We had to do it twice though as the first 35 didnt record for some reason. Really sucks though lol. But I wanted to share my birthday fun so we went ahead and did it again. So technically I got 70 swats for my birthday lol. Enjoy

Texas Allstate party 2009

*The trip to Texas*

We made it to Texas around noon yesterday.The trip was long but pretty uneventful. It was driving and more driving. lol. We took our time getting here and had stopped to rest both nights. And there was a pretty bad storm when we where in Louisiana and we stopped then. But here we are in Texas safe and sound. The day we arrived went pretty well. Saw a few people we knew and ran into Todd and Suzy as they were coming in as well. Thomas and I went to the room got online soma and cleaned up before we headed to a nearby store to order our cake for the ceremony. We got that ordered then came babck to the hotel and hung around the lobby some waiting for the early arrivals. Ran into a few party goers and then we all meet at a Mexican restaurant.Up until this point everything was fine except I did get moody before and told Thomas I didn't want togo to dinner but wanted a cigarette. I ended up coming back to the room briefly of course he followed and upon entering the room he pulled out his cane. Quickly had me over his knee as well as he lectured about my attitude and my complaining about wanting to smoke. After wards I cleaned up my face and we went back to the lobby and meet with the others. We took along another couple and one other guy in our van with us to the restaurant. But upon pulling into the restaurant. The car decided to break down. It is currently sitting at the restraint and as it looks we will have to be finding another way home. Not sure yet how this is going to work but we are trying to not let it ruin our fun while we are here. Thomas was rather quiet at dinner though and I got to sit besides Suzy and Amber grey. That was pretty funny. Suzy and amber had not gotten alot of sleep as they were working on something all night and they were pretty wound up more Suzy though then anyone. Todd had been sticking the tortilla chips down the amber"s hood as she wasn't paying much attention to that cause Suzy was trowing paper balls around and I was blaming cinema swats Bill for it. So there was some laughing and playing going on. Amber finally realized what Todd was doing and it was funny. Blaming Suzy because she knew he was doing it.After The restaurant Todd and Suzy had invited a few people over to lay there new game spankopoly. So Thomas and I Had went and we had alot of fun. I left early around 12 or 1to go and get some sleep. Thomas stayed and I don't know when he got back. Now it is morning and I am going to go to the buffet breakfast downstairs as soon as I get fully awake lol. Today should be more eventful and lots to write about. I think cinema swats bill will be looking for me today hehe.

*A very fun and eventful day*

Today has been very busy but I wanted to share a picture from the ceremony today it was beautiful and I have so much to write about and that will be coming soon. for now heres one of many photos from our ceremony. enjoy and I will share more later.




*Friday at Allstate*

Friday morning started out pretty slow and boring at first. I awoke pretty early and headed downstairs to see what they had to offer for breakfast. I told Thomas I would be back since he hadn't wanted to come long. It was early and the registration for the party didn't start until 3 PM that day. When I went to breakfast there was a few people I knew from our group and I sat with them and we chatted for awhile. I must have been there for a little while because Thomas later joined us figuring that I had run into some spankos since it took me awhile. Around lunch time I think it was. I was sitting around doing nothing really Thomas had left to get the stuff out of the car and and i just sat and chatted with other party goers. Movies Bill saw me in the elevator and asked me to join him in his room for a little pre party play and to take care of my bratting from the night before in the resturant. Mr. Bill is a very gentle spanker and very friendly and well known so i had no qualms meeting him in private. He gave me a pre party warm up and I later ran in to another person I had meet last year at the party. He was the first non Thomas spanking i had at the Texas party last year. So I meet with him as well in his room for a little bit for some pre party spanking. Afterwards though it was getting close to the time to go register and I had ran into Thomas who was helping them set up the room for later on. I went down with him and helped a little. We then went and registered and the party was officially started. Everyone meet for the orientation upstairs and then we all headed downstairs for dinner and some play. The ice breaker that we had this year was private themed. Everyone that wanted to participate was given a paint stick that was called a “plank” we then had to get people to sign it. For bottoms this meant everyone that swatted their bottom with theirs would sign it and for Tops they would have the bottoms the swatted sign it. It was a lot fun and both of us got a few signatures. After the icebreaker there was lots of play going on as well. I actually got brave enough to brat a little and I bratted a Top that I didn't know personally but have talked to some in chats and seen him at the last party plus some of my spanko friends know him well. His name is black velvet. He was talking to another top at the time and i was throwing paper balls at him.I missed a few times and it took a few throws before he realized who and what I was doing. But he did come over and we played some. Its so hard to remember every little spanking that I got i did manage to get quite a few on every single night or the party even the before and after days. Lol. I do remember Thomas spanking me and another brat Renee Evans was bratting Thomas a lot that night as well. I cant recall exactly what it was we were doing besides eating at the time but somehow the remark was made that maybe I should go and talk to her about the ceremony tomorrow and rethink it. In a bratty laughing way of course she never meant it but she got spanked a few times. She is a very friendly and playful person it was a lot of fun to be around her as well. Later on that night there had been a spanking session going on with someone that was pretty intense it was a female Top spanking a female bottom. The bottom had a crowd as she was taking a very hard spanking from this women. Later on after that spanking I saw the bottom in passing. She was asking me if I saw her session and then told me that it was her first time being spanked by a women And that she had thought that it wouldn't be that bad because women had to be alot more gentle. She admitted that the intensity was the same if not more then that of a male top and that the experience was good and egged me on to try it So I went ahead and got a spanking from her. She had me over a spanking bench and she said since it was my first time she would go medium on me. The spanking she gave was quite intense though and left me with a pretty sore bottom that night. Later that night I had run into Todd and Suzy along with Richard Windsor. I had told Suzy that I wanted to brat Richard so I could get him to sign my stick. But that I was afraid to. She grabbed me by the hand and dragged me over to him telling me that he doesn't bite lol. I got a swat from him and a signature for my paint stick as well as one from Todd and Suzy. A few times I had been asked to give a switch or a bottom a swat to get a signature but it was all in good fun and it was really just love taps lol. Though paint sticks can hurt but we didn't want to give anyone full swats so we wouldnt break there sticks. After a very fun and eventful night I headed to bed around 12 I think and left Thomas to mingle I dont recall when he made it to bed though but we had to get up early so I wanted to rest some. Plus I was already sore and I had alot to get through the next day including the ceremony at 10 in the morning. I will also add some pictures of the sticks as well as some other things that happened on Thursday and Friday as soon as our stuff gets her as we had to send it by way of someone else's car and we had to fly due to the car breaking down. So once they get into town and everything we will arrange for getting our things. Which is both implement bags as well. Makes me happy to know that the bathbrush and nasty nylon cane are far far away at least for a little while. *giggles* Though I do have something to report tomorrow as far as implements are concerned. I wanted though to take it one day at a time and I still will end up forgetting something very important anyways.

*Texas Allstate part 1~ The ceremony and spanking the bride*

Saturday was a very eventful day lots to be done and it started out with our ceremony at 10 Am. I awoke a few times that morning as I was very anxious and excited about the day. I don't remember ho many times I awoke before it was time but there were a few. lol. Finally around 7Am Thomas and i both got up and he went down to meet Zed from the blog Zed and Ginger who we had arranged to help us go and get the cake.

I heard that was an eventful trip though and the cake was almost being worn by Thomas at one point due to a close call with another vehicle. But the cake and everyone made it back safe and sound. I was upstairs awaiting Katie to do my hair when it arrived. I looked at it and Thomas started to get ready himself. Katie came by and she started curling and doing my hair. It was alot of fun and at this point I had major butterflies. I was anxious before but now I was really anxious and scared. I had a few visitors as we were getting ready Renee stopped by and so did Suzy from the blog A.S.S. to see how things were coming. At this point Suzy and Thomas headed downstairs to set the room up. I hadn't known that there was plenty of others to help also available there as well. I was left with Katie to get ready and they set up the room and all.


When Katie and I were done and I was dressed and ready we headed downstairs. Katie had to help me hold my dress though as walking around in a wedding dress is not an easy task sometimes lol. When I arrived and seen what they had done I was shocked and surprised. It was absolutely beautiful and they even had an aisle for me to walk down. ZEd and JP had done alot to set up for pictures and Zed pretty much set the whole thing up for us and instructed me on how it would go.

It was really nice I must say. Alot more then we had expected but a very pleasant surprise. It made for a very memorable event thats for sure. Originally it was only going to be Thomas and I and a few friends in a private room. instead we were able to have a full ceremony in a banquet hall with lots of friends and help. Todd from the blog A.S.S. had spent many days ahead of time going over the sample ceremony we had emailed him. He did a wonderful job.


Thomas got through his vows pretty easily and they were really nice. I however was emotionally choked up and cried during my vows. Not being able to get them all out correctly though Thomas understood the meaning and was touched by the crying since it is hard to get me to cry usually.





It was splendid and very emotional. I can't thank everyone enough for all that they did for us to insure that it was a special day for us. Thanks again to everyone who helped and attended the event as well as those that helped or didnt attend but gave us well wishes. It was early in the morning on one of the busiest party days. But it ended up being an event that we will cherish forever.




It was very nice and amusing that after Todd announced that we could kiss the spanking part was next. Thomas had fun trying to get to my bottom easily. *giggles* wedding dresses are good for somethings hee hee.




I have some pictures to share and possibly a video as well. Due to timing there was not alot of time after the ceremony for others to get to spank the bride and a few had wanted to.





I ended up changing in and out of my dress a few times that day though so that we could get some pictures. I was even able to get a video opportunity with Richard Windsor. And I have the video to share of Santa Claus spanking a bride. lol. It was just a fun little clip but it was nice to get some play with Richard from The House of Richard Windsor as I have always wanted to and in meeting him this year I was happy. he's a wonderful guy and spanker and I enjoyed every minute of it as you can see in our video. I just love his accent *giggles*. I look forward to seeing him again next year if not somewhere before that. Before our video Todd took the opp to spank me as well in my dress. I had gotten a few other people that had asked to spank me and they took some pictures and some didnt want pictures just wanted to opp to spank a new bride in her dress. It was fun though and the ceremony was nice. I will share the videos and the pics here then the next post will be about the vendor fair and then a third post about the pirate night. Saturday was so busy and there is so much to write about. But for now heres the ceremony pictures and the spank the bride photos as well. lol. It was a lovely event and I have many many fond and beautiful memories of this important day with Thomas. Thanks again to the many people that helped make it so special.
My good friend spanking the bride

Santa spanks the bride


Afterwards as we were playing in the rooms gropie and I got a picture of Thomas after we bratted him some and took picture of him wearing my veil *giggles* that is a priceless pic lol.


* Texas Allstate Party part 2~ Vendor fair*

Right after the ceremony the vendor fair was getting started. I quickly went upstairs to change out of my dress as it wasn't very comfortable and not that easy to get around in. I would later be changing back into it though since no one at the ceremony besides Thomas got the chance to spank the bride as they had wanted to. I changed into my red school girl skirt and left my white thigh highs and garter on. I ran back down to the vendor fair to join Thomas and walk around. they had a variety of things and some very interesting items to purchase. I had my hopes set on one thing and made my way to the cane-iac table that Sherri from Inner workings of Dixie had set up. She had originally thought that she would have the rose set that I wanted but unfortunately for me she didn't have that. I was a bit bummed but I can always order it on the site. They have some really nice items and are good quality at a very affordable price as well. I even got one of my coworkers to order their very first spanking implements from there. So Jp had a stand right besides Sherri so I browsed his selection of floggers. There were a few that I liked but the purple and black one caught my eye right away and I conversed with Thomas about our finances at the time to see if we could get it. We were able to so we purchased that. By the way Jp was also the photographer for our ceremony and he did a very nice job he took alot of pictures for that as well as the whole party. His contact information for his floggers is "floggers by Jean Paul" miossec54@yahoo.com. There was a booth set up as a spanking booth and the proceeds went to breast cancer research and things. It was called save our tits and they ended up raising a considerable amount for the cause. I had volunteered as a spankee and was awaiting my turn in the booth. That booth also had a raffle for a chance to play with three of the spanking models from amatuer spankings. Amber, Ami and Emily agreed to be raffled to help the cause. Thomas of course enjoyed his time playing spankopoly with Todd and Suzy the first night and really wanted another chance to play with Amber grey so he put his portion of the spending money into taking his chance at that. We traveled over to where Amber grey had her table set up besides our friends Todd and Suzy. Tood and Suzy were promoting the spankopoly game that they made. It really is a great and fun game and Thomas and i are going to be ordering one that we have personalized. If anyone is interested in the game contact Todd and Suzy at toddnsuzy@yahoo.com they will have all the information and will be taking orders and things. Amber made a special spankopoly paddle for it as well and when you purchase both the game and the paddle you get a discount on the paddle. Check out Ambers website as well at sassy paddles She has a rose paddle that I will soon be ordering to add to my collection and I still have high hopes for soon getting that rose flogger from Rosy Bottoms. So soon my collection will have plenty of roses in it as well. Roses, spanking and floggers these are a few of my favorite things lol. We headed over to another booth that had a spanking machine called the spankomatic. I took a turn at trying it out but couldn't take too much as it was soon time for my turn at the spanking booth and I didn't want to be sore for that lol. I couldn't tell you what pressure I got to but I enjoyed it a lot and probably if I had the time afterwards would have gone back and tested my endurance more lol. It became 130 and my time for the booth. I went over and was talking to one of the spanking models Emily for a little. I got the chance to have some time with the host of the party Tubaman at the booth. Last year I didn't get the chance and he has so much on his plate right now it is a wonder and it amazes me how well he keeps it all together. He truly is a wonderful man and a good spanker from the short chance we got some play. He is very well liked and respected as well. After that A person had brought a newly purchased implement he had gotten. It was a fire hose strap from Heartland spanking I think. He asked if it was okay to use that and I agreed. He gave me five pretty good strokes with it. It wasn't to intense but wasn't exactly light either. It did have a bite to it that's for sure. He remarked on my school girl outfit though and wanted a chance to roleplay later in it. although later never had the chance to come since things were really busy from then on. During my time at the booth I was approached by a lady who had a "wedding" present for Thomas and I. I was caught a little off guard though so I hadn't noticed at the time who it was that gave it to me just where her booth was located. Later Thomas and I were able to establish that it was Shirley from DS powerplay at the website DS Power play. She had given me a hairbrush shaped paddle pictured here.
I handed it to Thomas so I could finish the booth and told him where it came from and asked him to hold it for us. He placed it in my purse that he was carrying around for me lol. That's a picture I should have gotten as well. probably with him and my veil on too. Anyways there will be more about that paddle later. We were able to use it that weekend though we weren't able to try out the new flogger. Things got to hectic on that night so our night time activities that we had planned for our ceremony weren't much more then some intimacy before bed. WE both fell right to sleep afterwards. After my time at the booth the fair was coming to a close so I headed back upstairs to change back into my dress so we could get pictures and since Thomas was the only one that got to spank me at the actual ceremony due to timing. I had promised a few people the chance to spank me in my wedding dress so I wanted to make sure they got that chance. The demos were next and I wanted to be there for Todd and Suzy's and Zed and gingers demo on domestic discipline relationships. Thomas and i are of course as everyone knows involved in one as well and we are good friends with Todd and Suzy. So we waited till their demo was finished then went into a room and took some pictures of me being spanked. It seems lots of people wanted to spank a bride in her dress and some wanted pictures of the groom spanking me. We got those pictures and I was going to do the video with Richard at the time but when I got the chance to go and find him he had gone to rest and I didn't want to disturb him so told Thomas I would just change again later. After the many spankings in the dress it was time to go and get ready for the pirate party. Thomas and i went together to go and change this time. he was getting uncomfortable in his suit and I dont blame him as the dress wasn't very comfortable for spanking play and what not either. It made for some good ;pictures though. I am sharing the ones we have from our camera as their are more out there but we havent recevied them yet. So Ill write about the pirate night tomorrow in part three of Saturday at Allstate lol. See you then. Ill also add a blog roll with the bloggers I know that where in attendance and would be sharing their stories as well. It was a wonderful party and we all had a blast. I cant wait till next year again lol.

*Texas Allstate party part 3~ Pirates night and blogroll*

I wanted to also share with you others that have blogs that attended the party and will most likely also be sharing their stories as well. Check these other blogs out for more fun from Texas Allstate Party.

Thomas's Spanking Exploits
American Spanking Society
The Inner Workings of Dixie
Amber’s Spanking Journey
The House of Richard Windsor
ZED and ginger

For now these are the only bloggers that I know about. If I find out anymore I will add them as well. I am pretty sure that everyone has so much to write about that it will take several posts and days to get all the fun stories out there lol.

Part 3~ Pirates night



After we changed into our pirate costumes we headed downstairs for dinner. We had chosen the first dinner seating when we registered. There were so many people attending this year they had to split up the dinners to fit everyone. It was during this dinner that they announced the winners for the door prizes. Lol I didn't win anything myself. But at the very end Thomas's name was called he had won a paddle. Everyone clapped for each winner and when Thomas's name was called I heard someone say congratulations Cookie. It was fun. Of course Thomas always likes to give me at least one swat or so with anything he gets though we dont always have time when he gets them. I ended up bratting him during dinner and i think I saw the carpet a few times once I know was to test his new paddle. It looked more scary then it felt though. The only chance we got to test that out was at dinner though with a few playful swats. And Ill have a picture when we get it. I think tonight we are going to get our bags that we had to send via another couple travelling to Florida since our car broke down while we were in Texas. Flying home with everything would have been very expensive and the only other option would have been to ship everything to our house. Glad Thomas knew another couple from the party and got with them to bring the things with them. Most everyone that attends this party is very friendly and always ready to help a fellow spanko out in these times. I am very thankful for that. At dinner JP had a set up and took pictures for everyone that wanted them. Thomas and I headed to the picture place and got a few pictures taken of us in our pirate costumes.



Of course at a spanking party you need pictures of a spanking sense as well. So Thomas and i got a few shots with him paddling me. He didn't really paddle me at first it was just for pictures but he decided as they were taking the picks to give me a swat with the paddle. I was like hey you aren't supposed to use the paddle lol. Thomas had his new paddle he got at the convention. Here's a few of those shots. Am I supposed to be smiling lol.



After dinner and pictures it was time for the second sitting so Thomas and I headed upstairs. I was having difficulty getting my pirate stockings to stay up so I removed them all together during dinner. It was aggravating to keep pulling them up only to have them fall when I started to walk around lol. There wasn't a whole lot going on upstairs at the time a few spankings here and there and Thomas ended up getting bratted a few times by gropie. Shes a sweet girl that ended up across Thomas's lap staring at the carpet a few times. *giggles*. I am still waiting on permission to post a pic i have of her helping clean up the rose petals from the ceremony. If I do get the permission most likely Ill post that in the wrap up post in a few days lol. We are still waiting on a few others photos that others had taken for us. When we were upstairs Thomas decided to change out of his pirate costume they weren't very comfortable either and there was spanking to do lol. I had him get a picture with our camera though before he did.



We had alot of fun. After the second dinner was done Thomas had to go back downstairs for the model raffle announcement. He was hoping for the chance to play with Amber grey again. He didn't win though but thats okay. He came back up and joined the party. We all had some spankings going around and there was one point where Emmy had asked Thomas to place a tattoo on her bottom. They were selling tattoos for the bottoms for the save our tits booth. I had bought two and hadn't put mine on yet though wasn't sure if I was going to either lol. But I watched him give her hers and he had someone get him ice to use for the water lol. It was fun and interesting to watch lol. Guess it was cold judging by the reactions on her face. *giggles*. I think Gropie ended up across his lap a few more times as well. Thomas had a discipline session scheduled though and the time was near for that. I went ahead and asked him to apply my tattoo before he left and he did telling me to get a piece of ice as well. It wasnt to bad though lol. He had some difficulty though and said that Emmys was easier to apply as it stuck better. He got it on so we thought. I had to go to the bathroom a little bit afterwards though and the tat fell right off it was then I realized he hadn't taken the clear film off before he applied it lol. I went back and he tried again this time taking the film off before he did. And placing the left over piece of ice in my panties and holding it there as I was over his lap. lol. He then went to take his friend to our room for her session and I went downstairs to see what was going on. It was pretty busy down there lots of spanking going on. People were in the stocks which I forgot to mention about on Friday. I had shown an interest in wanting to try out the stocks so Thomas had taken me to them and placed me in them giving me a few swats. lol It was fun. While I was downstairs I ran into JP who was taking pictures of the stocks and things. There was no one in them so I asked him if he wanted someone in them for his pictures and offered myself lol. I am going to try to email him today to see if he has any pictures from the party with Thomas or I in them. I know he took one of me and the spankomatic as well. If I can get any more pictures I will add them in my wrap up post. After the stocks I went over and recevied my photos from dinner and the ceremony and talked some to another party goer. It was about midnight now and I knew Thomas should have been close to done with his session and I was getting sleepy and we still had some activities to do being as it was our ceremony night. I went back to the room but he wasn't there. He had gone back to the party for a little so I just got on the computer and waited for him. When he got back it was a little late and neither one of us was up to really playing to much with spanking or anything. By this time I was starting to get sore already lol. We cuddled in bed and had a little exercise before drifting to sleep. All in All it was a wonderful day and very interesting and fun. We both needed sleep though and it came real easy that night even though he had me in an undressed state that I usually dont like much I slept soundly through it though.

*Sunday and Monday at Texas*

Sunday morning I kind of lounged around the room for a little while Thomas got online. I didn't feel much like eating breakfast neither did Thomas if I can recall. We finally decided to head upstairs to see who was around for the last minute party wrap up. The rooms were open till 12 that day then the party would officially be over. Lots of people were planning on leaving that day but there were a few that stayed over till Monday. Thomas and I got the arrangements for selling the car and arranged for a flight home the next day. We had to go down and get our room for another night though as we had originally planned on leaving Sunday so we can be home by Monday night. In flying though we ended up being home the same time we had thought by driving probably earlier. Not a whole lot was going on. Thomas got with some friends he knew that live near us and were driving and arranged with them to lug our luggage home for us. So he told me to start packing things quickly. We packed everything in the things to go in the car only keeping two book bags one that held the laptop and the other with the clothes we were wearing and one change just in case everything else went. Including our new toys and all. I actually liked that idea as I knew that I had a discipline spanking that we were going to take care of Sunday morning but he decided to wait till Monday thinking I would have to sit on a sore bottom on the way home. We packed and took everything down stairs and I waited with our things as Thomas went and looked for some people he knew to say goodbye. When he returned we sat there talking to a few others that were heading out as well. At one point we got hungry so I walked to jack in the box with a friend I meet at the party. She actually was the one who did my hair for me and helped me get ready for the ceremony. I later after we ate went for a walk and headed to Todd and Suzy's room for a little bit. I knew they were staying over one more night and I figured Richard might be with them as well. He was and I got a last spanking from him as well as we sat and talked and things. He was waiting to get on his plane to go home. It was really nice meeting him and getting the chance to do the video with him. I also really enjoyed the chance to get a last spanking from him as well. He is a great guy and spanker. afterwards I went back to Thomas and told him where I had been and that I got a last minute spanking with Richard as well. I was still a little sore from all the spanking that weekend but it wasn't unbearable or anything. I definitely felt that I spent the last few days getting spanked. lol. WE had plans to meet with Todd and Suzy later that night though for some pre party party. lol. After we loaded up the car with our stuff and things we headed back to the room to rest some and Thomas went to sell the car. Later we went to dinner with Suzy and then headed to her room for some spanking play. There was supposed to be another pre party room but we had a few spankings with Todd and Thomas first. Todd spanked me and Thomas spanked Suzy. lol It was alot of fun. I was really sore though after the whole thing. Todd had mentioned earlier that he has never really given me a hard spanking lol. I guess he made up for that that night lol. I also have a clip to share from that spanking *giggles*. Spankos have alot of fun when they get together. The spanking hurt more then it usually would though I am sure because I was already pretty sore lol. They told me that I am a riser lol. I don't squirm to much during spankings but I do rise up sometimes when it hurts lol.
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This picture is funny because Suzy's face got distorted but I still like it it is one of those things you had to be there for lol. it was taken at a time when she sguirmed just a little lol.



After we had some spankings there we headed to see Miss Chris before she left the next day. She was my first female spanking and i enjoyed it. There was no spanking then it was getting late and Thomas and i headed to bed at that time. I had forgotten that Thomas had put our present in my purse during the fair and it was still in there. He said good now he has something to use for our session. Since it wasn't put in the bags to go in the car that were already on there way to Florida. When we awoke we got ready and things and then Thomas had his discussion. He decided that since it was a wedding gift and he believes the purpose for it was since we had a domestic discipline relationship then it would be appropriate to use that as the main discipline implement now. Which I am happy to say that the cane wont be used as much I hope. But that he would be using our wedding gift for maintenance and punishment spankings. Which by the way feels just like a hairbrush. And since I was already pretty sore there wasnt a whole lot of effort needed on Thomas's part that morning for the smoking. And now the gift has become our implement of choice for the taken in hand part of our relationship. Before he started though he wanted to get a picture of my bottom and how sore I was from the party this is the outcome though it looks better then it felt lol.

In all we had a great time and alot of fun. It was time though to continue our adventure with a plane ride home. Neither Thomas or I had ever flown before so naturally we both had some butterflies I am sure. I know I sure did. Although really once we got there and were flying it wasnt that bad. It was actually pretty to see the clouds and all and it felt more like a roller coaster ride without all the downward fast things lol. We made it safely home. I will be doing a wrap up with photos and memories from the party in the next couple of days. We have recevied our luggage and can get those pictures and I have gotten the permission from a few people to use some photos I have of them as well. So look for lots more photos to come and the video from our ceremony as well.

*Texas Allstate wrap up and photo memories*

Well I posted a whole lot about the recent Allstate party in Texas. It was a very eventful and full of memories event. It isn't possible to truly put into words the amount of fun and things one has at these kinds of events. But I can assure you the memories will last forever. Specially the ones of the ceremony from Saturday morning. I am loving having a ring on my finger lol. I have gotten the permission from most of the people that I have pictures of and have recevied most of the other pictures that others have taken of me as well.
The following blogs or other websites feature the people in the photos.I am listing them here cause it is a bit easier then listing at each photo.
Thomas from ~Thomas's Spanking Exploits
Todd and Suzy from ~American Spanking Society
Dixie from ~The Inner Workings of Dixie
Amber grey from ~Amber’s Spanking Journey also a model from Amatuer spankings
Richard Windsor aka Santa Claus from ~The House of Richard Windsor
Ami model from amateur spankings
Jp~he doesn't have a website that I know of but he is worth mentioning lol.
I am not aware of any of the other people have websites and a few didn't want there names mentioned either.
So I thought I would do a wrap up post that has mostly picture memories from the event. Anyone that is a spanko and hasn't adventured to a party yet should. It is a great opportunity to have alot of safe fun with like minded individuals and it is like a big family reunion. Not only is there alot of spanking going on there is alot of vanilla type interaction and fun going on as well. So without further delay here's a photo memory post of things from the party. Hope you enjoy I know I had so much fun and will have many memories for along time. There will be a whole lot of photos on this post though as I am using all the ones I have left as well as a few of the ones we didn't get right away and a few we took of our new implements as well. Ill start with the paint sticks/planks from the icebreaker game.
The theme of the party was pirates. So the icebreaker was these little planks they handed out with pens. The idea was to get people to sign your plank after getting a swat with it. Or for the tops they swatted you with it and their's as well. it was alot of fun and I got a few signatures on both sides. I even ended up swatting a few times just for fun. Even though I am not a switch or anything like that.



These pictures wont be in any particular order though just as I find them and Ill right a little about the memory or reason behind them all. lol.
Heres a pic of the door prize that Thomas won. it looks worse then it feels though.*giggles*



And heres a picture of the lovely flogger we bought from Jp. I will have more on Jp and some very interesting pictures and stories with him in this post as well. For now heres my new flogger. Now I one in my own collection lol. I had to find something white to photograph it on and all I can find was a shirt lol. Not the most professional lol.



I also thought I needed to show the details of the handle since I love the little handcuffs added on it.



Now during the icebreaker game and the first night I was sitting down with Thomas at one point and noticed Todd and Dixie besides. I noticed though that she was talking on her phone as he was spanking her. i laughed and asked her if it was okay to take a picture of that. And then asked for permission to post it she agreed so her is Dixie from the blog talking on her cell phone while being spanked lol. It wasn't even staged she really was talking to someone lol. guess they were a spanko as well with all the smacking noise in the background lol.


I had mentioned that there was a spankomatic at the party Jp managed to get some pictures of me when it was my turn for it lol.




And then there is me in the stocks as well. lol




And we can't forget about the game spankopoly that we played with a few people the first night we were in Texas. Todd and Suzy from the blog developed and made the game and it was alot of fun. There was plenty of spanking going around and Thomas even got a chance to have Amber grey across his knee during it which made him a very happy spanker that's for sure. lol This game was alot of fun when we get our copy of it we will be sure to bring it to any party we attend.





WE can't forget the most memorable event for me was the ceremony that Thomas and I had committing ourselves to each other. I am now really taken in hand and I had the chance to share it with alot of like minded friends and we had alot of help in making this a very memorable event for us. I am still working on getting Thomas to edit the video so I can use it on my blog. He has alot he has to do for his own blog so I am not sure when I will have the actual video available but it is coming I promise.



And I loved this pic of groupie when she was helping us clean up after the ceremony. She's one of many fellow brats and she kept Thomas pretty occupied during the party lol.



Of course there was a short you may now spank the bride during the ceremony. But there was plenty of other spankings afterwards as well. here's a few pics of the bride getting her well wishes from others and the groom giving her a proper spanking as well. Even Santa Claus (Richard Windsor) got the chance to come and wish her well.












And there is always the priceless photo of Thomas in my veil. I have to share it again as well. lol



Now I said that I would get to Jp more in this post. He is a wonderful person and hes a switch. He is the one we bought the flogger from as well. It seems that I ended up seeing more of his bottom then anything else this party lol. He did a wonderful job taking pictures for everyone and took most of the pictures I used for our ceremony post. I had meet him last year at my first Allstate party. I was too shy to ask for a spanking and a little leery on bratting. But I had enough courage to ask him if I could flip his hat off his head. I like guys that wear hats because it is fun to flip them off their heads. lol He allowed me too and said that i would of course receive a spanking for it. So last year I got spanked by him but this year I saw him being spanked a few times lol. Here's a few pics of him and a model from amateur spankings. Ami made some of the neatest faces I thought and Jp took some very hard swats throughout the party for the save our tits booth. He even sent me a pic that he is getting spanked with a boat oar lol.





And we cant forgot the last spankings of the party on Sunday with Todd and Suzy




So as you can see there was lots of fun and memories this year at the Texas Allstate party. The pirate theme did well and I can't wait to see what awaits us next year at the party.




Well thats all the photos I have to share with you. I had so much fun as I did last year as well. There is always so much going on and so many people to get to know it is amazing.