Some Play, new videos and a few other things

Again I lacked in keeping up with my blog daily. It has been pretty hectic around here and we have new neighbors that I have been spending some time with. I haven't really gotten the chance to write about a session that Thomas Katia and I were able to have again. But we had a lot of fun. It is always fun when you have more then one spanko together. We once again were able to play a little on an afternoon on Thomas's lunch break. Katia always picks me up a little early then we head to his side of town and have lunch before we get him. This time we went to subway. We got Thomas his sub to eat in the car as well. This time however I hadn't grabbed any implements so we only had what Thomas had with him which was the bathbrush. Not a very friendly play implement though. LOL. But we managed to have fun with his hand and the brush. laughing and having a good time while he warmed our bottoms up for us. The time we get to play though is very limited since it is his lunch break but it still leads to some fun. Katia and I tried to get Thomas by ganging up on him and trying to get him down. We probably could have if we tried harder but we were just messing with him and being playful.

I am getting ready to add another self spanking video to the store today. It is the last one I have so I have to make some more this next week coming up. But I also have a few appointments and things so I am not sure what day or days I will have to spend making any. But I am sure I can find one day to grab some footage. I am hoping that my bottom will have healed by then. LOL.

Yesterday I was able to meet Mr. Dom as I will call him here for now. He is the one that Thomas and I meet for lunch the other week. I was both nervous and excited at the same time. Meeting and playing with someone new is always a little scary at first. Lucky for me he was one that made me very comfortable and didn't do anything that would give me concern as to my safety or his intentions. He enjoys this lifestyle and the ones he plays with alot and was very comforting and that helps alot. I'm still the shy one though and its tough to get me to open up even when I am comfortable with the person. The more we get to play the better I will get though and Ill be less shy. Though I must admit it is a whole different thing to me. I just never viewed certain things as shareable. But I am learning that it isn't a bad thing and can actually be fun and exciting, Different people have different ways and different techniques that can lead to a whole lot of different sensations and interesting times. And I learned something about myself that I didn't know before I meet him.

Mr. Dom text me his address and I mapped Quested it after forwarding the info and address to Thomas so he would know where I was. I also let Thomas know I was on my way and when I got there.  I wore my little red skirt and a white t-shirt. I wasn't quite sure how things would go so I opted for a easy way to gain access for spanking. Mr. Dom is more then just a spanko though but enjoys the spanking side of BDSM as well. Since it was our first time playing and I am so shy he kind of had to just go with things and continued to check on me as he went to make sure what was happening was okay with me.

He lead me into a spare room that he has many toys in and lots of homemade stuff as well. It was very intimidating at first. He showed me some things that peaked my interest as well. Ropes, suspension cuffs, spanking benches, and many many more things. I was glad that he was able to make me feel comfortable though since it was so intimidating and given the vulnerable state submissives can be in things could have been very scary and different. I was nervous but I was not scared at any point Mr. Dom was very caring and very careful in what he did and how he came across. As he stated this thing we do is about fun and sharing something beautiful not about being overbearing and forceful and taking what you want without regards to the submissive.He wanted me to enjoy myself just as much as he wanted to enjoy things. For that it takes an understanding of each other and trust. He also knows that I am in a relationship and there are certain things that I can and can not do. He made sure that these were communicated as well so that it was fun and we didn't cross any lines that would hurt my relationship with Thomas. I know for many they can't understand what this means or how someone can play with others outside of their relationships. I know I was one of those before and it took me alot to come to understand this and realize that certain things can be shared and it can be a very nice thing. I think sometimes the fact that Thomas and I have this open relationship brings us closer and helps our own relationship. I'll just leave it at that since it is very hard to explain and for others to understand.

After he had me bent over the spanking bench he lifted my skirt and started to spank me with his hand. Now everyone knows how I say that the hand doesn't hurt. I think Mr. Dom's hand hurts a little more but it still doesn't "hurt". I guess i just can't see a hand hurting much as i have a very high tolerance and I can be a pretty hard player. Which yesterday came in handy. LOL. I can't remember everything that he used to spank me with. I know there were floggers, leather paddles, handmade whips, a cane and things. He liked my reactions when he was able to get them. He mentioned how it took me alot to winch or react though. As I am conditioned pretty well. He did get a few reactions though. Which is the fun part of things. He liked when i made noise or lifted my legs. I mean what guy wouldn't like it. Reactions let them know that you are both feeling it and enjoying it. At one point when I said ouch he laughed and said Ouch isn't a safeword.

There were a few things that I never thought I could handle though. He has a violent wand and we tried it out. Something I never thought of trying as just the name scared me LOL. It really wasn't all that bad. it was a different sensation though and got a reaction for sure. But like I have said he was able to comfort me and help me through things real easy. I was nervous but never fearful he would hurt me beyond the obvious hurt of spanking and violent wands and the such. I knew I would physically feel pain and I did but it was never a pain that would harm me in any way and I actually like that kind of pain.

During our play he used alot of sensation play. Feathers, light flogging, hands and the such. At one point I wasn't aware at first what I was feeling when he actually had a knife out. I was kind of absorbed in the sensations and our play and not paying attention to things he was going for. At that point I trusted that he would not harm me. So I wasn't looking back like I was at first every time he reached for something new. Had I looked back and seen him go for a knife my reactions might have been different as I would have probably felt fear then. Living in abusive situations make certain things fearful when they shouldn't always be. And knife play was something that I wouldn't have thought that I could handle. And if I would have seen the knife come out the outcome of our play with it could have been very different and I probably wouldn't have let him. But surprising to me I really liked the sensation of it I didn't know it was a knife either until he mentioned that it was a blade. Then I kind of woke up a little but didn't safeword. I was actually enjoying it and the sensation. He is also experienced so it wasn't like I was being harmed or cut or threatened with it. I was actually in a very nice state at the time. And he took the time to caress and care and make sure that i was okay the whole time. It was a very wonderful experience one that words really can't describe either.

That state was a very wonderful and exciting state to be in. A different feeling all together then just spanking play. And I assume that this is where many consider playing with others as cheating. But I have come to see it as something very different and something I actually like alot. When it comes to actual penetration between two people then that I leave for my partner and he leaves that for me. But both of agree and know that the other will go to a certain level of "sexual" play with others. There are many things two people can share that don't even involve clothes coming off. Since I was still dressed the whole time and in fact I even had my panties on the entire time they were just wedged for the spanking. But I was aroused and teased a few times. And as he called it I was cooing LOL. It was new different and quite exciting. I ended up with some nice marks as well. Nothing to bad but there are some bruises.

I look forward to more sessions with Mr. Dom and exploring things that I haven't yet. Since it was the very first playtime we didn't use bondage or anything like that. But I am really looking forward to it. I feel comfortable and safe with him and Thomas also feels safe letting me go with him and playing. I am sure there are a lot of things that he can teach me about BDSM and my own self that I haven't had the chance to explore yet. I can't wait till we explore bondage as i know I like it anyway and can only imagine the things he can do LOL. I came home in a very happy and blissful mode. And in times when things are stressful and all that it feels good to feel good LOL.

Now on to the other stuff. LOL This week I won my football game. The person I was playing hasn't switched out any of his players and he had one that was on a bye week and another that was injured and didnt play. I got 70 points to his 30 something. It brought me up some in the league but still not enough to be in the top 4 yet. I hope to get there. Next week I play Richard and I know that will be a hard game so I am hoping for some great plays by team and his team laying some eggs. We will see,

I'm off to get some things done and add the new video to the store. I am working on some promo clips for the self spankings that i havent done yet so you get a sneak peek at what you will find on the store.