memorial day

As many others Thomas has today off. he has had off since Friday so he had a nice three day weekend. This year though we really didnt do anything as we might have usually done. With the ticket and rent and many other bills due tomorrow and such we are not really able to afford any extras. We were supposed to meet with some Texas friends that are in Florida this weekend. However we couldn't afford for the whole family to go as we had planned so Thomas went to meet them himself. Which gives me time on the computer that I wouldnt have had LOL.

As far as spanking wise nothing much going on since the caning. I'm not quite as sore anymore. I have however remembered my seat belt sometimes as I'm pulling out onto the road. Alot more then I used to. It was mentioned somewhere that the fine would probably be more of a reminder then the caning was but I'm not so sure about that one. I dislike the cane and even though each stroke wasn't "of the best" They were hard for me to get through. It could have been worse I'm sure and it will be if I get another ticket or he catches me without my belt. But it was bad enough. I'm not looking for any reasons to get another any time soon.

Although I have wished for some more structure in our lifestyle it just isnt possible in our lives to have that with the kids around. Not that our relationship is bad because it is not we have a fairly good one but I do think sometimes it lacks all the control I wish it to have. Once in awhile when the mood strikes we have the chance to have some "play" where he is in control. Usually though it is in regards to sex and not very often. But I guess that is something Ill have to wait for till the kids are out of the house. The question I have in my mind is after being together as long as we are and will be by that time will it be hard to switch gears such.

Sometimes I find myself pushing him to take more control though at the time I'm not always quite fully aware of what I am doing but know that I am pushing his buttons on purpose just to get a reaction. I dont always get the reaction I want but sometimes I do and he will take control. And sometimes it just goes unnoticed and only frustrates me. I dont know how to explain it or even why I want things like that sometimes. I wonder if anyone else ever has those moments as well. I mean I want to be "HIS" and be submissive and all that but I struggle with the inconsistency of that in our relationship. So there are times when I really just fight it and make it hard on both of us. I dont really even know what i am trying to say either LOL.

Anyway I hope that everyone has a great memorial day and stays safe and remembers what the day is really for. Take some time to remember the ones that gave their all.

punishment caning video now available

On Friday evening with my son at a friends house Thomas and I were able to take care of the punishment that I was due for the ticket. It was not quite as bad as I had perceived it would be but it was bad enough that I was crying before the half way mark. The video is available at Birchwood Academy. and I really hope that this one sells better then any of them since he is threatening to make another one next week if we can't get the sales off this one to offset the ticket cost. And I really don't want to go through that ordeal again. here's a preview of the video that is available. As I said before I endured 101 strokes of the cane for the cost of the ticket. The last stroke of course I knew would be a killer. He ended up snapping the cane during the last stroke which was as he states "of the best". Im still pretty sore and wearing marks from it that is for sure. So for those that like to see real punishments or firm canings this is the video for you.

Wednesday woes

Wednesday was not a very good day for me at all. I had alot on my mind and alot of things to deal with that day. I also had a doctors appointment as well. Due to having to take care of a few things I ended up running late for my doctors appointment. After I called them to let them know that I was running late I headed out the door. I didnt get very far till I saw the lights behind me. I wasn't aware that I had done anything wrong but pulled over to see what the cop wanted. The cop informed me that this was "click it or ticket" month and that he had noticed when I drove by that I wasn't wearing my safety belt. Now I usually do wear it but I dont always remember especially if Thomas isn't the car. So I was given a yellow ticket he informed me that it wouldnt add points to my license or anything I just had to pay the fine and to remember to always wear my seat belt since it is now a law in Florida that you can be pulled over just for not having a seat belt on. I didn't really pay attention to how much the ticket was at that time. I put on my belt and headed to the doctor which I was now very late for hoping I would still get seen. When I pulled into the doctors I text Thomas. I just sent a text that said you are going to kill me. He sent back a reply asking if I wrecked his car. I informed no but that I did receive a ticket and for what. He then decided to call me to talk after he text that I was wrong he wouldnt kill me but that I would probably wished he had. I knew Id be in trouble and that was before he even knew how much the ticket was.

Given the situation in our house right now with Thomas being the only one working and the income I bring in isn't close to amounting to much if and when I do receive it. Since most of my income is sporadic child support I didnt have the option of not telling him. I didnt know when or if I would be getting anything anytime soon since it has been awhile since their dads have paid and the last two checks that were paid have been lost between states and no one knows where they are. That was another thing I had to do that day is try to go to the local child support office and find out where the money is and why I havent received it. So trying to hide a ticket was not an option and he would have found out anyway probably as i am not very good at hiding things LOL.


The ticket was very high I think for a seat belt infraction but I don't really have a choice now. When Thomas heard that the ticket was going to be 101 dollars his first words were along the lines of how were we going to be able to come up with that money when we already have to figure out ways to rob Peter to pay Paul as it is. And that this was a total waste of money for no reason since he already has a rule that we all wear our seat belts anyhow. So I was in the wrong and knew that this was going be a costly mistake in more ways then one.

Later that night he informed me what he had decided as a punishment for my mistake. He had decided that I would receive a caning equal to the amount of the ticket. That means that I will receive 101 strokes of the cane for the ticket. he also told me that in hopes of getting back the money we would be video taping the punishment for our clips store. considering that I have no way of actually paying that ticket myself and the money would be coming from the household income which is limited as it is I would say the video taping is fair. Although I am not to happy about the implement chosen I suppose it will make for a good reminder to always wear my seat belt since we really cant afford to be throwing away a hundred dollars for forgetfulness. I can say that I am hoping at least that the video will make up for the ticket at least.

Since it is being video taped and since it is a real punishment and not a quiet type playful thing it isn't anything that we can just take care of right away. With kids in the house we can't just run off somewhere or even wait for the kids to go to sleep and then take care of it. The chances of the kids hearing or waking up are to great and we really dont want the kids knowing anything they dont need to. So we have to be picky about how when and where we spank whether it is play or punishment. In a way I am glad that it has to wait till we can arrange something and in a way i am not. I would rather just get it over with and done then have it hanging over my head and knowing that it is going to happen. When it will happen is the question now. Not sure how or when we can arrange to be kid less long enough to take care of the situation but I do know it will happen soon. Hopefully soon as I really want this debt paid off already and done with. Ill be sure to let you know when it is over and when the clip will be available even though I'm dreading it I am ready and wanting it to be done. So I have a feeling I'll be like this picture here soon.

Spanking Workout

When Thomas and I first moved into our new place he had taken off work for some vacation. He originally took off the work so that we could attend the Boardwalk Badness party in Atlantic City. However, we were unable to attend and with moving he still took his vacation. This gave us some alone time without the kids and we were able to take one of those days to get some filming in. We only made the one video though and it is now available at Birchwood Academy. Here's a preview of the full video. It was quite fun making and getting to tease Thomas. The video starts with Thomas lifting weights and strengthening his spanker arm LOL. I then see what he is doing and continue to tease him about how it is doing no good and he will still be a wimpy spanker and things. Enjoy!

Shakespeare spanking

Last night Thomas called me into our room only saying that I should pause the NCIS I was watching and see something he needed to show me. I was a little worried at first though what it was and what he needed me to see. I thought for a minute one of the kids had done something. I wasn't expecting what he showed me when I got to the room.

He showed me this clip that a friend of his sent the link for last night. Of course he posted to his blog last night about it but I didnt have use of the computer for long last night so I'm sharing it today.



Apparently the judges liked it as well as they were advanced to the next round. I can only imagine what they did for the next round LOL. I hope that I get to see that one as well. I find it humorous that TV allowed this to air. And that so many in the audience seemed to enjoy it as well. People have many opinions about our lifestyle choices. But it was very refreshing to see it displayed on TV so openly. I almost felt as though I was at a spanking party watching a skit or something. LOL Anyway hope you enjoyed the clip I think it was very funny and entertaining.

A fun video

While Thomas and I were in Texas I had mentioned that we made a few videos one Saturday morning in front of others. We used the audience for ideas and just went with the flow. The most interesting and perhaps pretty comical video we made was the one were Aiden and I were involved in a cat fight sorta. It was fun to make and it shows just how much I am not an actor LOL. I do believe that I was laughing throughout the whole fight. You can defiantly tell that we were not fighting for real. But I think it came out nice for a spur of the moment type thing. The full video is available at Birchwood Academy. Here is a quick preview of the video for you. Enjoy!

A trip down memory lane on our anniversary

Three years ago on this day I meet a man that would forever change my life in many ways. At that time I knew I had a interest in spanking but never had the chance to really explore things. Little did I know that I was about to receive my first real adult spanking. I had meet with other potentials but no one made me feel safe and at ease like Thomas did. I was a little bit shy at first but Thomas was able to stick by me and I have since overcome that shyness with others as well. You can read about our very first meet on his blog Here.  He wrote about it the day after at which time I was only called the newbie. LOL there are three parts to the newbie posts but they start there.
Today we are now a committed couple. Something that I never really guessed at the time we would ever become. So on this anniversary of our neet id like to post some of my fond memories from our time together beginning on May 18th 2007.

Thomas has become a major part of my life as well as that of my children. As a guy that never wanted children it still makes me smile to see him interact with my children and them him. He has made a major impact in their lives. Growing up without their real dads in their life was hard. I'm sure it is still hard for them now as well. But now they have someone that takes an interest in their well being and that is there for them through the good and the bad. And with them being teenagers you know that there are a few bad. LOL

When Thomas and i first started "dating" or whatever you want to call it I was still working on a few issues from my past experience and i wasn't the easiest to crack I am sure. We have had our ups and downs and have experienced the major road blocks in our way. But we got through them together. He has helped me out alot. Three years ago this time of the year was especially rough for me. When I had first meet him and throughout our dating I was still experiencing PTSD symptoms and flashbacks. Things were not always easy but he stuck through and showed me what it is like to be cared for and loved. I am happy to report that I have not had an issues with flashbacks and things for awhile now and I am pretty sure It is because of his support and love helping me through those issues. Now of course i still remember things and sometimes I still start to slip into depression and things but for the most part it is not at all as bad as when I was left to handle them all on my own. I cant remember that last time I had a major flashback and for that I am glad.

We kind of let our first year as a committed couples anniversary slip by us. things were rather hectic at that time in our lives so we really didnt have the time to worry about it. March 28Th 2009 was the date that we exchanged our rings and vows. It was a very memorable event that i was very happy to share with friends from Texas. We were even able to incorporate spanking into it as we held the ceremony at a spanking party.

The song accidentally in love by the counting crows has now become "Our song" I smile whenever I hear it. I guess it is because we accidentally feel in love since neither of us were really looking for nor wanting it.


So today I am just going to share some old pictures and video memories from our life together. many have already been seen and talked about but there are just so many memories and i am sure there are going to be many many more. I sure hope so. I love Thomas so very much and even when we have our problems I still cant see myself without him around. Enjoy the trip to memory lane with me.

This is a picture from a contest we entered and won first place on. Spank the heart contest for our first Valentines day together.


This was me from our first Halloween together. We took my youngest trick or treating in his development.


This was taken in Atlanta GA when we attended a back to school party at SOS. Thomas had a nice surprise for me later after the party and this was part of it LOL


This was my first Texas party with Thomas. I had a blast and it was this party that i really came out of my shell and shyness.

Since I had children in my house and Thomas was so far away we often went to the woods near my house to have some spanking fun. This picture was from one of our first photo taking times.



The next pictures are from when I went to go see him in Tampa when I still lived two hours away.






This picture is from a memorial day get together with some friends.


The next picture was from when Thomas was taking pictures for his showcase on his blog. We never realized it while taking the pictures that my daughter had used his camera and switched it to black and white. LOL I dont recall him being to happy but I saved some of the pics myself and i liked this one.


This next picture was us playing with my new Cookie paddle I had recevied from Paddle Masters products.


This next picture is actually from our second Christmas together. We were living with friends at that time and I recevied a Christmas present from cane-iac.


This is a screenshot from our first roleplayed video. We actually did the video for a contest but later dropped out because of some issues with the contest and I didnt like how people were acting towards the host of the contest Richard Windsor. It was still a fun video to do though.


The belt was actually an implement that i needed to adjust to. I had a very bad experience with it and it took Thomas a little while to get me used to and to get through my issues with it before I could have it used on me. Now it really isnt an issue for me anymore and i dont fear it like I used to. Long story though.

The Cookie challenge was something we were doing to see how long I could last with implements and to test my limits. We really didnt get through as many as we had hoped for but hopefully soon we can get back to make another one soon.


Wow I didnt realize I had so many fond memories LOL. Yes I did but I dont think everyone wants to be here all day looking at all pictures. LOL

I'm just going to include a video I made as memories of our time together. Ill have to make another one for this anniversary as well. As i have a few more things to add to it from this past year and all. but anyway enjoy the video.


And here are the slide shows from our ceremony.

TASSP 2010 Improv 1 video now available

While we were  at the Texas Allstate party we took a Saturday morning to shoot some videos with an audience. We used the audiences ideas to decide what the idea for the scenes will be. The first idea was that Aiden would be late for class. The second scene was with me and the third was with both of us combined. I really like how the third came out it is quite humorous. But the first video is now available at Birchwood Academy. Here's a short promo for that video.



Thomas has worked on the others and they should be available as well in the next few weeks. We are posting one video a week of these so I should have something every Thursday or Wednesday to share as far as they are concerned. I cant wait to write about the third video though as that was my favorite scene to do with Aiden.

I dont have alot to write about any recent spankings though. We havent had much of a chance to get any spanking play in lately which isnt really a surprise though. With the kids around it just isnt possible. And today Thomas is home from work but so is my youngest. Hes been off school since Tuesday as when we went swimming over the weekend he ended up getting a very bad sunburn. I took him to the doctor yesterday and they said that he has second degree burns from it and prescribed a burn cream for him. So hes home taking it easy. It looks alot better today as most of the blisters have gone down and it is now peeling to reveal the new skin underneath. ill be putting a bottle of sunscreen in our car though so there wont be any forgetting it if we choose to take the kids swimming again. We have passes for bush gardens as well that I will be keeping sunscreen on him since he is very sensitive to the sun it seems. Out of the 5 of us he was the only one to burn at all and he burned badly. So to keep this from ever happening again Ill be taking much more precaution with him. I feel horrible that it happened at all. Hes ten and I have never seen a sunburn from any of my kids as bad as his got. We weren't even out there long. Apparently the medicine he is on makes him more sensitive to the sun.

As far as the house I get to rearrange things this weekend. We are getting some more furniture and we will have a couch now. We left the old couch at our old place because it was very old itself and I didnt feel like dragging it along anymore. LOL. Well We are getting a friends couch and chairs this weekend and a microwave stand. We are also going to pick up the basketball hoop that I got a yard sale but couldn't get in the car so I left it at a friends house nearby. My son will be happy once we get that home for him. I'm sure the other kids in the neighborhood will as well. It will be fun to rearrange again LOL yeah right but Ill be happy to have a couch to lay on when watching TV now instead of a very uncomfortable chair or dining room chair like we now have. My biggest problem will be arranging things to fit so I'm off to go and figure out how I will arrange everything once the couch, shelves, cart and dining table get here this weekend.

BDSM checklist

Well I havent had much to write about as far as personal experiences in the past few days. Things have been pretty vanilla for us. We took the kids swimming and things this weekend and I have been busy baking and making new recipes and things so nothing real interesting. I will be following Thomas on cleaning up my blog eventually but not today. Today i am going to fill out a play checklist I found somewhere. I know many BDSM sites have checklist for partners to fill out but I cant remember which one in particular i got this one from. I like to read and look around online for things on BDSM and spanking and all that. I was at a recent yard sale and purchased some furniture and books and things. In the book bin I found the 2 books from the Anne Rice series. I really want to read them but I currently only have volume two and three so I am missing the first one and want to wait till I can obtain that before reading them. So for now Ill just fill this list out and dream LOL.

Most of the activities I will go into detail about whether or not I would do them if asked or not. Some will depend on my partner. And since I am not planning on being with anyone other then Thomas Ill base most of that on our relationship at the time. So its not like I would do anything with just anyone. Some things i would let Thomas do I wouldnt do with a casual sex partner if I was single or what not.

The list is pretty long though and i am sure there is more that can be done as well. LOL

Abrasion= I'm not really sure what this means as far as BDSM play though. I have had abrasions from spanking play and things though.

Age play (not pedophilia) = I'm not really into this myself. It might occasionally be fun to play the part of a little girl but dont know that I could in the sense of anything sexual and what not.

Anal plugs = I have no desire for these at all. However it isnt a hard limit and I would do if asked for by my partner. It wouldnt be something I would enjoy though and would only be done for his pleasure.

Anal sex = Again this is something I dont enjoy and would only do for his pleasure.

Animal roles = Not really my thing either. I have no desire to be treated as an animal at all. But if so desired I would for his pleasure. I'm kind of glad that hasn't ever been an issue though and never asked of me.

Arm and leg sleeves = Sounds pretty interesting and fun to me

Asphyxiation = A little scary if you ask me. I have no desire to to do this either. Don't think I would even for my partner as I wouldnt feel safe and accidents can happen pretty quick.

Ball gag = yummy need i say more

Ball stretching = Nope not my thing and really not something I could do considering I dont have balls anyway LOl

Beating hard = Well as long as the beating is on the bottom I'm all for it. But I would never let someone just beat me in general for their pleasure unless the only target was my bottom.

Beating soft = Same as above but I prefer hard myself.

Being blindfolded = yummy again. I would love this anytime for sexual, spanking and things.

Being gagged = Yup I like that kind of thing

Being serviced (sex) =Okay so who doesn't like sex Id like to have it a few times a day if I could

Bestiality = Nope never not even if he wants to this is a hard limit for sure

Biting = Yup I like being bitten gently every now and then

Bondage- heavy = yummy yummy yummy I love bondage.

Bondage - light = Ill take anything I can get

Boot worship = Not really my thing

Branding =Again this isnt really my thing either but considering my relationship with Thomas i might let him if he ever desires to brand me. Lucky for me though he really isnt into body markings at all.

Breast bondage = Yup I could like this

Breast fucking = maybe but not really sure how that would work

Breast whipping = yes I could like this at times.

Brown showers = If this means what i think it means then the answer is hell no never going to happen. Hard limit

Cages = Well considering we have children in the house at the time we really cant do this but I'm not against it if it was possible

Caning - english = not really something I enjoy but its obvious i have done it

Caning - sensation = Again i dont really enjoy canings but some light sensation play with a cane is alright and fun sometimes

Catheterization = Well I have only had this done while being hospitalized and dont know that i would feel safe having someone do it that wasn't trained in it so i would have to say no not my thing

Chains = I like whips and chains yup

Chastity device = Never experienced this but wouldnt be against it with my partner

Chauffeuring =I can come up with many things this word alone could mean as far as BDSM is concerned so Ill just say if it is my partner then yes but I wouldnt for other men or anything like that.

Choking = No not really my thing

Chores (domestic service) = Yup I have done this and would do

Chosen clothing for = Yup I would go for that.

Chosen food for = well I guess if I would be a slave I could do this though it isnt something I really want to do as I like alot of things and wouldnt like to be told I had to eat something I despise

Clothespins = Yup lots of uses for these

Cock worship= Well again i dont have a cock and i am not real keen on touching or doing other things other then sexing cocks LOL

Collars = Yummy I want one

Corsets = I want one of these as well.

Cuffs = Yummy again

Cutting = Nope knifes are a hard limit for me we wont be playing with any

Dilation =Not sure what this means or what is done so I dont think I would like it

Double penetration = Wouldnt like it but would do it for my partner if it meant that a dildo was used. I dont want two guys fucking me

Ear plugs = um okay I guess what is the fun in these anyway. But if it floats his boat sure Ill wear ear plugs

Electricity =I could go for small amounts used wouldnt want it to extreme though

Enemas = ewww yuck wouldnt want that. But would for him if he so choose to. Not sure what they would get out of it unless it was for a punishment in which it would most likely work as far as embarrassing me and feeling humiliated.

Examinations = Not comfortable with these but will for my partner

Exhibitionism = No I'm not really one but I have been to spanking parties and that kind of qualifies here somewhat.

Eye contact restrictions = would be hard but I could do it I guess

Face slapping =No not going to happen. If it does Ill be single again

Fantasy gang rape = No not my thing have no desire to be with more then one person

Fantasy rape= yes but only with my partner

Fisting = nope not for me but I would for my partner if he asked hopefully he never will because i wont enjoy it

Flogging = yummy Ill take that

Following orders = yup i can go with that

Foot worship = I'm not a foot person so no this isnt for me at all.

Forced dressing = Not really my thing either

Forced feminization = umm I am female already Lol

Forced homosexuality = no not really though I have been bi curious

Forced masturbation = Only if I had to thats something I like to do in private

Forced nudity = Been there done that but dont like it really only do it for his pleasure

Forced servitude = um I believe I have done that somewhat

Genital sex = isnt that sex anyway

Given away = Nope hard limit

Golden showers = Nope thats a hard limit

Group play =Okay so depends on what we are playing intercourse no I wont play in a group but spanking yeah I have and will. Ill also go as far as bondage as long as i am semi clothed

Hair pulling = Turns me on actually LOL

Hairbrushes = Ouch I hate them but have had them used on me a few times

Harnessing = Sounds alright as long as it is for bondage and not pony play or animal play

High heel worship = Nope not my thing

Homage with tongue = Not sure what this means but dont think so since I dont do much with my tongue LOl

Hoods = yeah i could like this

Hot wax - dripping = Sounds like fun to me

Hot waxing - hair removal = um not sure ill like but will do if need be

Housework = I have my share of it

Human puppy dog = wouldnt like or do probably

Humiliation in private = Yeah i would do this only in private though

Humiliation in public = No wouldnt like this at all 

Ice cubes = I can think of lots of things to do with these as well

Infantilism =Nope not my thing either

Initiation rites = nope dont know about this either

Injections = Hell no hard limit

Interrogations = say what LOL not my thing but I guess i would for him if asked

Intricate rope bondage = yummy I like i like

Kidnapping = Thomas can kidnap me anytime other then that nope I wont do it

Kneeling = yes I can and will 

Leather restraints = sounds yummy and fun 

Lecturing = I have heard quite a few of these at times

Mantra and meditation = sounds boring but I would

Massage - getting = Yes of course i would love a massage anytime

Massage - giving = Id rather get but I will give the best I can

Medical scenes = A naughty nurse sounds fun but not really into playing doctor and things. Some things i can like and do but there will be no injecting or things like that

Model for erotic pictures = done spanking videos so I guess i have done this. As far as other things not really sure I wouldnt do nude for public eyes but might for my partner

Mouth bits = No not my thing either

Name change = I think I already have LOl

Nipple clamps = Yummy I love these
Nipple weights = Yup like these as well

Oral - getting = It isnt something I care for much but do enjoy the feeling when I have

Oral - giving to opposite sex = Not something I like to do but will for Thomas only

Oral - giving to same sex = Nope not really interested in that

Orgasm control = yeah I could go for that with Thomas

Orgasm denial = yeah I get that alot LOL

Outdoor scenes = yes i have done these as well for spanking
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Over-the-knee spanking = Yummy I like I like

Paddling = Well how much I like it depends on the paddle used but yes I'm into it

Personality modification = Not really into that much

Phone sex = Not my thing

Piercing (perm) = I like piercings but Thomas doesn't. He wont let me get my naval re pierced so I doubt I would have to worry about this

Piercing (temp) same as above

Prison scenes = yeah I could do this

Prostitution, real or fantasy = fantasy okay or for a scene with Thomas but wouldnt do it for real

Pussy whipping = Okay not something I enjoy much but will and have done

Pussy worship = If anyone wants to worship my pussy they are more then welcome to LOl. Just kidding no not my thing

Riding crops = These are fun

Rimming = Yuck no way hard limit

Rituals = I'm up for these

Religious scenes = I could do though have no desire to do
Rope bondage = Yummy did I mention I like bondage

Rubber/latex clothing = would be quite uncomfortable but would do

Saran wrapping = Sounds like alot of work but I would allow it as long as it wasn't my mouth or nose being wrapped

Scarification = Nope not my thing

Scratching - getting = Yeah this is okay somewhat as long as it isnt extreme

Scratching - giving = Ive been known to scratch a little I guess

Sensory deprivation = Yeah i could go with this

Serving as a maid = I already do

Serving as a pony = Nope wont happen

Serving as furniture/art = Not really interesting or my thing but would for Thomas glad he doesn't want to

Serving as toilet = That's a hell NO

Serving orally = Yuck I hate it but will do for Thomas

Serving other Doms (supervised only) = Nope not my thing wont do even for Thomas

Sexual deprivation = yeah I'm deprived

Shaving = yeah been there done that

Sleep deprivation = Again I have been sleep deprived many times

Slutty clothing = Only when the kids aren't around and we aren't in public

Spandex clothing = Okay

Spanking = Now you do know this is a spanking blog Right? Do I have to answer this one?

Speculums = Not really my thing but will allow with Thomas. Although it would be more a punishment humiliating thing for me

Speech Restrictions, what and when.. = Okay maybe I guess it isnt a limit

Spreader bars = Now I like that idea alot .

Stable (serving with other submissives) = Nope I'm not good at sharing

Standing in corner = Don't care for this much but have and will again I'm sure

Stocks = Yes please

Straight jackets = Interesting I guess I could if I was asked but have no desire

Strap-on-dildos = Nope not my thing I dont care to strap anything on to fuck anyone

Strapping = yes

Suspension = I actually liked that the first time I got to try it at a party at SOS it was fun and different

Swapping = Nope not me

Swinging = Nope not me unless you mean on a swing

Tape gags = Sure why not a gag is a gag

Tattooing = I like tattoos but Thomas doesn't

Teasing = Hee hee i have been called a tease before

Thumb cuffs = Okay but why not just do it all and cuff me 

Tickling= Oh this is not fun when it gets to be too much but yeah I would 

Triple penetration =Npe unless of course it is one guy and dildos not into more then one guy fucking me

Uniforms = Sure

Verbal humiliation + I guess so

Videotaped Scenes = Yup for spanking only

Voyeurism = Nope not me

Whipping = Yes please

Wooden paddles = Been there done that plenty of times. Smaller ones are no fun though

Wrestling= yeah i like to wrestle sometimes