An odd request

I sometimes get some very strange emails. And I get some very not so strange but weird and stalker type as well. I tend to ignore most of them specially the more sex psycho types LOL. On Fetlife I have had some people contact me that wanted to meet me and things like that. Usually these aren't that bad sometimes they can be weird and I only have to reply if i reply that I am in a relationship and not looking to meet anyone. Or if it isn't that bad I will talk to the person and things and if I feel comfortable enough I might meet some. I have only really meet in person with one person that I met on fetlife and Thomas was with me. We meet to go out to dinner as well afterwards just him and I though sometimes I think more into things and as i was never looking for more then a friendship or spanking relationship these meets never really got very far as most people want to meet to have some sort of long term or short term sexual relationship which I wasn't going for.

The other day I was contacted by someone that said that I had a cute profile and that they wanted to purchase my panties for 100 a pair often. I wrote them back saying that I have gotten some strange emails but never a request like that. They just wrote back that they have a pantie fetish. Which I can understand as there are many different fetishes out there. And selling my used panties doesn't really seem all that bad at all. Especially at 100 a pair. So I told them that I would. The person hasn't wrote back yet so I'm not sure if it was a real request or not yet. It was an odd one though but amusing. Hopefully it is real as we could always use an extra here and there and thats something I do everyday anyway wearing underwear that is LOL.

But as a bottom in the scene you can never be to careful and I think that alot of us that are more open in the scene probably get alot of unusual emails and things. I had to stop signing in visible on my yahoo because I would get a whole lot of weird IMs and people that were scary trying to tell me things that they want to do to me and all that. I know I meet Thomas through the computer myspace at the time. So I do know that there are safe and sane people out there to meet. The problem is though how safe is it really. All it takes is meeting the wrong person and alot of bad things can happen. Even though I am up to meeting others in the scene now and meeting someone else it is a scary thing. I'm just glad that I have the support of my SO to lean on. At least I can be upfront and let him know when where and with who I will be at. Some people in the scene do not have that safety net. And even with the safety net in place I'm not guaranteed safety. But at least if something does happen they wouldnt have to search to hard to find me and if i dont return on time or in one piece there is someone else that knows to look for me or what area and a start to where to find me and who has me type thing.

I told you I have alot on my mind Ive been doing alot of thinking in the past few days. Another topic I want to write about probably tomorrow is about keeping your spanking escapades a secret from your SO. I see that a whole lot. Though Thomas and I don't do it ourselves I know many that we have talked to and some that he has meet do. I have mixed feelings about it but will explain more later.

The nylon cane

I was hoping after the brief session with the nylon cane that would be the last for a long while. The nylon cane is deadly for me at least and I hate it with a passion. But just the day after that little session I again found myself facing a session with the nylon cane. This session however I was seriously dreading and I think the anticipation and the fear was worst then the actual caning. Okay maybe not, but it came pretty close. On Saturday Thomas had mentioned a little about the store saying that we need to get more videos up and that he needs to find some models to work with. Of course I had to add that maybe he needs a more harsh video since people seem to like the harsher punishment ones. He agreed and I had agreed to take a harsh punishment. I was thinking more along the lines of a long and hefty session with a few implements that was pretty intense. I was also thinking more as a stress relief roleplayed punishment as opposed to a real punishment. I tend to like to keep those personal and between just him and I. However Thomas then mentioned that since the punishment caning for my ticket hadn't sold very well that he had promised I would be making another one as well. So he then told me that he had decided that we would make that video that night. And that I would receive the number of strokes with the nylon cane that was left in how much we needed to pay the fine. Which ended up being 58. I was literally in tears just thinking about it and didn't want to do it really. The nylon cane when used mildly can leave marks that last for a long time. And can and does break skin with one swat. The thought of 58 was overwhelming. So I pleaded a little with him to try to get out of it but he wasn't having it. I then asked if before the session we could have some time together. I had wanted the time to spent just him and I for a little while while it sank in that I was going to be receiving this caning.

He did agree but also mentioned that he had a few things he had to do before that on the computer and that Joyce had needed him to do some things at her house. I was a little mad about that though. I just wanted him to get off the computer and spend that time with me and only me. Our youngest had gotten in trouble that day so was facing a early bedtime so I figured that would be the perfect time to get some much needed time together in. After he went to Joyce's and I sat watching TV alone waiting for him to come home and dreading the outcome of the night. I called him a few times while he was there because I was scared about the caning and didn't like being alone my son was in bed and I wanted Thomas close to me. He finally came home though we only really spent about an hour and half together before the session started. I was hoping for a little more specially since it had taken him about three hours to do what he needed to do before after I asked him to spend the night with me. But I was happy to have gotten that hour at least.

He set up the living room and things getting it ready and let me rest while he did. he then came in and told me to get ready for the session. So I got up and got dressed since I was in my PJS and didnt want to be on video in those. he then had me bend over with my hands on the chair much like the last time. This time though I had the five cane stroke marks from the previous night. So it wasn't like he was starting on an untouched bottom. I knew it was going to bad. Though admittedly I imagined it worse then it was. Knowing how much damage the nylon cane can do Thomas didn't go all hog wild and full force. I think he had a good amount of restraint and knowing that I was going to take 58 he didnt make them to harsh that I wouldnt be able to at least bear them a little. Though the nylon cane hurts with just a little stroke without much force anyway. And for some reason it burns for awhile after the stroke even. I knew I would not be sitting well for awhile. It is still sore as I write this.

He counted for me and as I really wouldnt have been able to myself. i think I was so worked up from just the knowledge of it that I was hurting before he even took a swing. But the first stroke came and then so on and so on. I was really trying to take it but it is hard with the nylon cane. Although it could have been alot worse. As in watching the video I can see that he didnt even really put alot of force in many of the strokes. Had he done that my bottom would be mince meat. I don't really think he wants to see blood and things on his videos. And a full force swing with the nylon cane can cut the skin in seconds and has.

Anyway the video is now available and I survived it. Though I am sore and I hate crying on video I do believe that I was crying after the third or fourth stroke maybe. Anyway hopefully this video sells a little better. he hasn't threatened making another one but I can say I will not ever be forgetting my seatbelt again. that is for sure. Heres a preview of the full video that is available at Birchwood Academy. .

Pondering?

I don't know what it is but lately I have been doing alot of pondering or thinking and such. About alot of things. This might be a good thing and it might not be. When I get in these moods though I tend to get moody and take it out on Thomas. I guess I have been the last few days. I've been thinking way to much and not able to get my own thoughts together or even understand what it is I'm thinking. Last night though Thomas kind of shocked me. He had decided that he had enough of my attitude and things and took out the nylon cane. He had it lying on the bed when I came in the room to use the restroom and get ready for bed. When I asked him why he had it out he told me. Not that I liked the idea he had as I don't like the nylon cane at all. I have gotten used to the rattan cane somewhat and still don't like that much but it isn't near as bad as the nylon. In a way I was shocked but also in a way I was relived. Go figure. It is really hard to explain the emotions that go into the whole thing.

I have to wonder what it is that gives me that sense of peace that certain things give me. Or why something that actually scares me and hurts like hell can actually set me at ease in the long run. I have alot on my mind and when I do and things I tend to get moody and snappy and usually at Thomas. I also have been fighting him on certain things or maybe not really fighting as much as I think I was testing. Now that I think about I am pretty sure it was testing. Or pushing his limits just to see how far he would let me go which most times is pretty far and further then I want to actually be let to go. Odd I know but I just can't really help it.

One of the ways I was testing I believe was with the whole night time sleeping undressed thing. The other night we had a session and he made me go to bed afterwards undressed. And I did up until the time I realized he was asleep and then I got up and got dressed. So he said that we would continue until I stayed that way all night. Which I didn't do at all for the last few nights. He managed to give me a few swats with the rattan cane a couple of times but they really didn't phase me and I think at the time they just made me mad. It wasn't really that hard either. He usually didn't get into bed until at least 1 in the morning I had already been asleep for awhile and then he woke me up to get undressed and cuddle. Though I fought him about it for a few reasons. One I was mad at him and two I knew that he was so tired and things it was only a matter of minutes before he would be asleep and I could get dressed and another I believe is because i wanted him to assert control more then he has. I don't really know what I mean here as I don't even really understand it either myself.

Well last night when I went to bed after a lecture and things he asserted that control and with the nylon cane. I tried to get out of it and told him that I wouldnt fight him. I didn't really want the nylon cane at all. I wasn't able to get out of it though before I might have.  He had me undress then had me bent over the bed. He talked to me some more about the reasons and things and then he gave me a stroke of the cane. It hurt and iI moved though he claims he was going light on me. I don't consider the nylon light in any way even if you don't hit hard. When he was tapping it before the next stroke that even hurt a little. He ended up giving me six strokes I think. I know at least five and he added one. He then had me lay there with the cane on my lower back so he could take a picture. I assume he will be blogging about it with the pictures. He had warned me that any more attitude and things and we would be back there again but that the strokes would be Quadrupled and that it would be video taped as well. After he took the pictures and things he then had me stand against the wall with my hands behind my back and placed the cane in my hands. He told me to stand there until he was ready for bed so he could see the strips. he made a few comments and at one point had reached over and rubbed the strips on my bottom.

Now with my bones and things being weak I can't really stand in one position like that for too long though and it was really starting to hurt. I didn't want to say anything to him but I started to whimper and cry and I think he knew why. He asked me if it hurt standing there and when I told him it did he let me kneel beside him and place my head on his lap which was a much more comfortable position and actually used to be my favorite place to me. he let me lay there for a little while he worked on the computer and he stroked my hair. He then let me go to bed but told me that I had to lay on my stomach so he could still see my strips. Which I usually like to sleep that way myself. Though I'm usually dressed. I feel asleep though and I think he joined me in bed soon after as well.

Now I didn't really like the whole pain of the nylon cane thing but I did like that he didn't let me get away with being moody and that he actually took the time to talk though I didn't talk much myself. We are supposed to talk tonight about things but I'm still not very good at talking about my feelings. I can write them alot easier then sitting there and talking. But I will see how tonight goes. The nylon cane was placed right by the bed as he puts" in case he needs it for tomorrow". And I really don't want it again. But even though I was sore and didn't like the punishment at all I felt better after it was over. I felt a little more secure after being able to lay at his side with my head on his lap. Something that I really haven't been able to do for a very long time. And I wasn't about to test the waters and get up and get dressed like I had been.

I don't understand what it is with the whole thing and why I am wired the way I am but I can't help it. For some odd reason I feel more secure and loved and closer to Thomas after and during the times like that. Even though I don't like the nylon cane. Sometimes I  wish I could understand it all. How can a punishment and pain bring me peace and contentment like other things can't?

Anyway I have alot of others things going through my mind as well about alot of things. not just with my own relationship and my own feelings but with other things as well. I think I will save the one topic that I meant to write about today for another day. Though it kind of stems along the same lines but doesn't really just involve me.

Thanks

I wanted to thank everyone for the comforting comments on my last post. I also wanted to add a little bit more clarification to it as I think I might have sent a different kind of message then I meant to send with it. My relationship with Thomas is changing but not dying. He is very much a big part of my life and has been very good for me and my children and will continue to be. We remain close and both love each other very much. What I meant by changing was that I was starting to come to more grips with the whole open relationship I guess it would be called. I wouldn't go as far as calling it poly yet as I really don't see us both living loving and having the same relationship with others together. I don't really know the technical terms for it all and really haven't yet grasped the whole concept of everything. Although I am more open to some of it as I meant by my last post. I am still struggling myself with the whole what ifs and if I can really handle this but I'm open to give it a try and not stay so shut in as to only having a relationship with Thomas. As everyone already knows that Thomas plays with others and has relationships outside of our relationship. It took me a little while to really come to figure things out or to trust that kind of relationship but I am starting to see things differently because of it. I guess my biggest fear was that there would always be someone else that might be prettier and more of what he wants and that he would leave me or I wouldnt be what he wanted anymore and giving him the leeway of seeing others was not an easy thing to accept. But Our relationship is pretty strong. It is one that has alot of love alot of trust and works for us. Yes as all couples we still have our ups and downs and I sometimes have jealousy issues or feel neglected and such. But for the most part we have a very good relationship and the good times far outweigh the very few bad times we have.
What I meant with changing is that I have decided that I would also maybe look at the options of relationships with others. This doesn't really mean sexual really although there are a few acts that both of us agree we can do with others that are considered sexual in nature. My main concern and the reason that I have never acted on other relationships before was because of my own feelings. I am a little more open minded as far as certain things are concerned and still a little closed minded about it all as well. But I talked a little with Thomas and have decided that I would be open to exploring and "dating" others. As I told Thomas my one concern is that I am afraid that I would start to have more feelings for someone else then I wanted to have. So that is what I meant by I am not sure how it will go yet. I don't think that it is possible to fall out of love with Thomas at this point. And I have never felt or given love like I have in my relationship with Thomas. So that part still scares me a little bit. But it all really boils down my own feelings and how I can deal with them. Which I feel that I am ready to deal with now. I truly believe the saying that true love never dies. So with that being said Thomas and my relationship is still my main relationship or my primary focus and will remain that way and I feel that it is the same way with Thomas. So yes there is change in things as far as our relationship but like I said it is probably for the better or at least I am hoping that it will be. Losing Thomas would be a very hard thing even if I had the same feelings for someone else it just wouldnt be the same as it was for us. I don't really know how to explain it but it is a feeling and all in all even though I am somewhat scared and unsure about everything I feel good about things as well. I mean i don't believe that our relationship is in any jeopardy at this point either way. I just meant that I open to meeting others and things more now then I was before and wanted to start meeting others to me that is a big change as I have always believed that even just going out with someone else was "cheating" so to speak. It is kind of odd and refreshing to be able to talk to my partner about others in such an open way and not feel like our relationship is dying. I would say it is growing and probably branching out but certainly noit close to dying.

Changes

I guess change is normal. But I wasn't really expecting it to be the way it is. Things are changed in my relationship maybe for the better it seems. We still love each other that won't change but I guess it is time to look for what I really need in a relationship elsewhere since I won't be getting it in this relationship. I never thought that I would be in a committed relationship and dating others but here I am. Not sure what will happen next as far as that is concerned. I can only take it one day at a time. But as in a conversation last night I am now looking to find someone that is more dominant in personality and can give me more of what I need the just a Top can. I guess it is hard to explain really. But I'm open to meet others that are more into BDSM and being dominate then just spankers that Top. So since the whole aspect of being a submissive rests on trust I do know that it will take alot of time and effort to find that person. But I guess Ill never find it if I don't look. So the search begins. I really don't even know where to begin. I have gotten quite a few offers before that I have let slip away since I wasn't really looking at the time. Some just wanted a roll in the hay so they never would have gotten very far. But now I'm ready to give it a whirl and see what comes out of it. So if anyone is in Tampa and interested on meeting and seeing where things might go. Send me an email and we will chat and see what happens next.

Seriously?

LOL I was reading the TBT that Thomas sometimes brings home from work. Bored and nothing much to do at the time I found one article quite amusing. It was an article about the new toy story 3 movie that is coming out soon. It had a list of all the new characters although some didn't seem to be new to me. But one character in particular made me laugh and just stood out in my mind for quite some time. Thomas was on the computer as usual doing his thing when I busted out laughing and told him I had found a new name for him.

One of the new characters is a hedgehog that they named Mr. Pricklepants. For some odd reason I found that name to be quite amusing and decided that I would now call Thomas Mr. Pricklepants. It does seem like a really odd name to name a kids toy if you ask me. But it did provide my angelic mind with some evil fuel. LOL I can just picture the next time we get some spanking play in and instead of saying yes Sir when asked a question I am so going to say yes Sir mighty Mr. Pricklepants. *giggles* Should get a reaction out of him with that one.

Anyway though I spent most of the day cleaning the house with the kids since Sundays are our cleaning days and laundry day. I'm still doing some of the laundry but most of the house is clean. I just really had nothing to write about so I decided to write about Mr. Pricklepants and nicknames for Tops or SOs. Does anyone else have any nicknames to add for their Top. When all things are playful and not serious I like to call Thomas quite a few things. Some are not that nice if meant in a serious way but he knows that I don't mean them that way. The most popular nickname or whatever you want to call it is Master Asshole. Not that I would ever really call him an asshole seriously unless I was really mad then I would probably end up paying for it with my backside. But lucky for me I dont really make insults a habit unless in play.

Thomas doesn't usually take things like whatever or other playful things as serious in less I am acting seriously or have an attitude to go with it. Such as the other day. I tend to cut him off when I don't want to hear what he has to say. Sometimes it is in play and sometimes I am just agitated and dont want to be bothered so I say whatever. I did this the other day and he decided that I was going to get three canes strokes for each time I had said it to him when he called and I was in a mood. So when the kids went to bed he proceeded to give me nine strokes of the cane for my whatever mood earlier that day. I still wasn't in a great mood though but went to bed and didnt argue or anything as i didnt really want to have a fight that I usually dont win anyway.

But still Mr. Pricklepants? Are you serious LOL? I can't wait till I get to use this on Thomas hopefully soon. It beats Master asshole I think.

Questions and feelings

Sometimes I go up and down with my feelings as far as submissive and things go. It is hard to explain what I mean but there are many questions I have in regards to my own self and the whole dynamics of this thing we do. I get that it is a whole learning process as well. But I often wonder why do I have these feelings and are my feelings normal. Though who can really define normal? I feel the best loved and cared for when I am controlled. Not so much in a forced way as in abuse though. I can’t make sense of it or even how I am feeling. There are days when Thomas and I just go about our normal lives and our interactions are pretty boring. It feels more like we just exist together more then we are in a relationship. When they go this way for many days then it leaves me feeling out of control and lonely. I mean no I don’t want to be micro managed or told I have to do this and that and things have to be this way all the time and I don’t want to be beat senseless or for any old reason at all. But what I do want is control and a sense of being “HIS”. And I need it more often then I think maybe he knows. Simple tasks asked of me when I normally wouldn’t do them give me that sense of control. Not just spanking or pleasing him in a sexual way type thing. I don’t really know how to explain it or even if I could understand it all myself. Things that I don’t really like I seem to actually like (ex. Sleeping naked). I don’t really like the act itself but I like when I am told to do it even though I fight it somewhat. Sometimes I actually think that I will instigate things just to get a reaction. Though many call this bratting or being a brat and maybe even manipulation I don’t really know why. I don’t really see myself as a brat and I’m not always really looking for a spanking or anything like that I am looking more for the control the actual feeling of submitting to him. When he takes control and controls me it makes me feel better. Of course this goes beyond just the sexual aspect of it but that also plays a major part of it. When we have these moments of “Play” or whatever we call them and Thomas does take control I feel a whole lot better for a long time and I am much happier even if they don’t involve sex at the time. It just feels right to me more when there is physical things involved rather then just him saying that he owns me, loves me and what not. Sometimes I feel that he does and most times I feel that he doesn’t and it just a game we play once in a great moon. Yes we can’t really have spanking play a lot because of the kids. But after the kids go to bed there are many things we can do that would give me that sense of submitting and him being in control that are quite quiet and simple. Maybe they are really called rituals and what not or something but I don’t know. I do know that the times that he does little things to assert control I feel very much at peace and happy and loved and cared for much more then I do when he just says it or climbs into bed and we have sex or when I get stressed and he knows it and we have sex or something like that. Or even when we get the off chance to have some spanking play it leaves me feeling a lot better then before. I hate when I get that feeling of just existing and that other things in his life are more important. That is when I think the jealousy factor creeps in much more as well. I know that he talks to other girls and even spanks other girls and while I don’t believe that he would go against our agreed upon don’t dos such as actual sex acts that we agreed we wouldn’t do with others sometimes this bothers me more then it should. Mainly it is when I am feeling neglected that these things bother me. The fact that he talks to others and spanks others and things doesn’t bother me themselves. But when I am feeling lonely and our own lives feel more like existence together rather then actual being together then this bothers me. I may be wrong in my thinking but feelings are not always easily controlled and these are the times when I feel more apt to feel out of control and more likely to do something to try to get his attention such as acting out or giving attitude or even fighting his attempts to cuddle and get close. It’s something I am aware of at times and something that I am not aware of at other times but realize after the fact. It’s a feeling I hate feeling when I do and not how I want to feel. I guess it is something I need to learn to control myself. But it is a hard thing to control. Our relationship is a good one. I know that he does love me he takes care of me and my children and our home and things. I love him with all my heart as well and I know that he loves me as well. He would never intentionally harm me psychically. It is a relationship that I had to get used to as I have had many abusive and unhealthy relationships before him. I realize that I have something really good in my life and it isn’t something I want to lose. I guess that is why I get the feelings I do much more then I probably should. I know that I have to find a way to either communicate my feelings to him better or just deal with how I feel better myself. I don’t know why I feel like I do sometimes. I know that I feel a lot better and happier in life in general. Our relationship has done wonders for me and how I feel in whole. I don’t get my PTSD flashbacks and things and I don’t battle with going in and out of depression like I did before. I am not as shy and shut off as before and I don’t worry as much as I did before. In all I’m a lot happier and healthier then I ever was before. But at times I feel lost and lonely even when he is lying right beside me. Does this mean that I really am not a submissive? Should my feelings really not be a factor in the whole dynamics of this? I struggle with this as I know what I want but don’t know how to ask for it maybe? I also see asking for what I want as defeating the whole purpose of it as well. Why is it that I need controlled to feel loved and wanted? Or am I not really knowing what love is since I know that I am loved I just don’t always feel it? So many questions in life. Feelings really are a weird thing. But I really don’t think the world would be better without them.

A different drug problem

yesterday I got an email from a fellow spanko friend. Enclosed was this article. I know it is hard to see it through this picture so it is rewritten below the picture so that you can read what it says.

Below is the article rewritten for easy reading:

Editor's note:  The following letter has appeared on the internet and has was viewed by many readers. Many felt it would be appropriate for the readers of Avoyelles Parish

The other day, someone at a store in our town read that a Methamphetamine lab had been found in an old farmhouse in the adjoining county and he asked me a rhetorical question, “Why didn't we have a drug problem when you and I were growing up?”

I replied, I had a drug problem when I was young: I was drug to church on Sunday morning. I was drug to church for weddings and funerals. I was drug to family reunions and community socials no matter the weather.



I was drug by my ears when I was disrespectful to adults. I was also drug to the woodshed when I disobeyed my parents, told a lie, brought home a bad report card, did not speak with respect, spoke ill of the teacher or the preacher, or if I didn't put forth my best effort in everything that was asked of me.



I was drug to the kitchen sink to have my mouth washed out with soap if I uttered a profanity. I was drug out to pull weeds in mom's garden and flower beds and cockleburs out of dad's fields. I was drug to the homes of family, friends and neighbors to help out some poor soul who had no one to mow the yard, repair the clothesline, or chop some firewood, and, if my mother had even known that I took a single dime as a tip for this kindness, she would have drug me back to the woodshed.



Those drugs are still in my veins and they affect my behavior in everything I do, say or think. They are stronger than cocaine, crack, or heroin; and, if today's children had this kind of drug problem, America would be a better place.



God bless the parents who drugged us.



(Submitted by Concerned Citizen)

Now I am not really that old that I remember some things like the woodshed and all that but I can guarantee that my parents and most parents when I was younger were still like that. And the children were alot less out of control then they are now. As a mother of teenagers and preteens I can say if I did half the stuff my kids try Id have been six feet under.
Kind of makes you wonder what our kids kids are going to be like. Anyway just wanted to share that as I liked it. I have no clue what paper it originally came from or how it made its way around so I can't really link to any orginal sources. If anyone knows let me know and I will link there as well.

I Can't think of a title LOL

Sorry for my lack in posting again. There is very little to report as far as spanking is concerned recently. Life is still hectic but it isnt really a bad kind of hectic. Just normal things that being a mother brings. The kids are out of school and home all day now so that makes for less time on the computer as well. I havent been feeling that great and have had a few doctors appointments and now on more medicine that I think is adding to the not feeling good. It seems kind of counter productive to be taking medicine to get better yet the medicine makes be feel ill. But it is working for what it needs to work for I suppose. The kids have had a few appointments as well. The boys are in therapy and doing well. I'm quite proud at how well they seem to be doing now. My daughter has had a few issues she is working on that adds a little stress to my life at the moment. I have had to make some really hard choices involving her and my boys and life in general. But things seem to be going okay for her. The first phone call I got from her was rather rough but the recent calls have been better. I do really miss her though.

I have been itching for a playful spanking though. Although that isn't very easy to come by even though I live with my spanker. It isn't like he can just grab me and spank me whenever. With the kids in the house and now home from school all the time it makes it very difficult. My oldest will be taking a trip this summer with his mentor. So we will have about two weeks that we only have the one child to find childcare for in order to have some playtime. This child also goes to bed earlier then the oldest and sleeps pretty sound and his room isnt near our room like the oldest room is. So we have a much better chance at sneaking some playtime in after he is sound asleep. I dont know yet how much we will get but hopefully we will get some soon.

I want to remind everyone about the Spanking Bloggers Network as well. It is a great resource for spanking bloggers and with the new forum there is alot more chance for interactions among spanking bloggers. So if you have a spanking blog and want to be a part of the network and forum check it out and contact us.

im off to rest some and watch some TV with the boys. Hopefully soon Ill have some spanking things to report.

Spanking Bloggers Network

Alot of changes have been going on with things around the Network lately. When Thomas's Yahoo account (that he opened the group for the network with) was deleted it also deleted our yahoo group for the network. He quickly got a new Yahoo ID and started working on changing all his old contacts and things. He also started a temporary Yahoo group for the time being while he worked on something bigger and better for the Network group. I do believe that this new forum is alot better and will be much more interactive and user friendly for our network members.

If you have no idea what I am talking about then let me explain. The Spanking Bloggers Network is a blog that has a blogroll of spanking bloggers. It can be found here. where you can read the membership primer as well. Sure there are plenty out there already but I myself have gotten alot of traffic from the Network and I really enjoy the fact that with this Network blog there is also now a forum that us bloggers can talk and discuss things related to almost anything but mainly about spanking blogging and how we can help each other with new ideas or promoting things such as certain special blog posts or just questions in general.

Its been a slow process getting ahold of the members to let them know about this new forum. So if you are a spanking blogger that is on the network please email either Thomas or I and we can send you the link to the new forum. I really would like to see more interaction through this new forum from the 50 so blogs that are already on the network. And if you are not already a member check out the blog and come and join us. Looking forward to see lots of spanko bloggers to talk to in the new forum.