Fetish Con the Violent Wand and things LOL

With FetishCon behind me I have quite a few stories to tell. Not as many as I hoped to be able to tell because Timing was not on my side as I ended up being in pain and sick by Friday only one day after the convention started. lucky for me though the first night and Friday morning went well and I got to experience quite a few things I wanted to or never thought I would.

Thursday night I had off work so Thomas and I took the kids to the sitters and headed downtown for the convention. We got there a little early so we had to wait for a little while but that was all good because we ran into Dazey in the lobby of the hotel and got to chat with her a little. She is really sweet and has a great personality and she was able to make me feel alot more comfortable just being around her. I was a little intimidated by the whole convention thing as it is mostly professional models and things. But i got over that pretty quickly.

before we headed out I had answered an add on fetlife for a photographer that was looking for models to shoot for content trade. Which means he would shoot the pictures and then we would both get to use them. I told him I was new and if he didn't mind working with me I would be glad to and left my number. Shortly after the meet and greet was under way I got a phone call from him and set a time to meet with him and shoot that night. I was scared and nervous and i made Thomas go with me to the shoot. I wasn't sure what we were going to be shooting though I knew it would be pictures. When we got to the room the photographer was very friendly and i felt more at ease. I filled out the paperwork and we got started. I have been getting a little more comfortable with my body and have been able to be naked without the bad feelings as much as before. I still am a little self conscious but it is getting easier and I went for it in this case. The photographer Told me to strip and he tied me up and took the pictures. I was still camera shy somewhat and Thomas said i was stiff and need to loosen up for the camera which I will work on. The more I actually do it the easier it is getting. I haven't received the pictures yet but as soon as I do I might post one to share. My biggest set back is my boobies they are quite large and I feel really self conscious about that. I am hoping to get a reduction someday and i will feel alot better about it.

After the shoot was done and we went back to the meet and greet where I saw a whole lot of girl on girl action going on and girls being tied up and things the dungeons were open for the night. While at the meet and greet I had run into Larrs who I have meet before at Fetish Circuit. Larrs has a violent wand and i have found that I really really like the violent wand. We made plans to meet at the dungeon so I could have some play with the violent wand. I got into my bra and panties at the dungeon and laid on the massage table. Larrs got out the attachments for the wands and we played for a little while till the wand was getting to hot and he didn't want it to overheat. I was in heaven though and I enjoyed it very much. I am planning on getting a wand for us with my income taxes this year if i can. I am hoping that Thomas will learn to use one real quick. Later that night the same effect that happened the last two times I played with a violent wand happened. My back had a burning sensation and i had lines from where the violent wand was used on my legs and back though the back was the only one that was bothering me. Before I went to bed that night Thomas rubbed lotion on my back and we went right to sleep it was about 2 or 3 in the morning when we got home and we both were pretty tired and needed rest for the next day.

I was all excited about the next day and was hoping to meet and shoot with maybe another photographer or something however that morning those plans were dashed. Mother nature decided to pay me a visit and she couldn't have found a worse time to do so. I was bummed because that also meant that i wouldn't be able to play at the dungeon if i wanted to. I had to work Friday night anyway but was hoping at least to get some play in before I headed to work.

Friday morning after we got to the convention. we were walking around and we ran into Dazey again while we were at the clips4sale booth. I was filling out a survey for them about my store and their service and they were talking on the mic. I wasn't really listening to everything that was said though I did somewhat hear him say something about free orgasms and I looked up at him afterwards he then called me to the center of the booth and as i went in my mind was whirling so I was only half paying attention to what he said and even though I heard what he said it didn't register what a sybian was at that time. LOL I learned real quick when he pulled it out and asked his female assistant to show me how to ride one. I am sure at that moment that I was redder then a beet. It wasn't until then that it registered what they wanted me to do. but hey I was at a fetish convention I had played in my bra and panties the night before and did a completely naked photo shoot for the first time so what is one more first. I did as she showed me and she turned it on. i tried to focus my attention on the floor and not all the people standing around watching me. It was quite an intense feeling though and it was different. I laughed most of the time with my nervous laugh but with that thing the vibration was not something one can ignore. I was liking it I wasn't hearing alot of what she was saying as she talked and things I heard a few of the questions she asked me like my store number and things and all that. She asked if I sold things like that in my store and I said no just spanking So they got out some implements and started to spank me. Thomas was watching and i looked up at him and dazey a few times I noticed Dazey taking a picture as well. The girl noticed thomas as well and asked if he was my spanker and then asked him to come and spank me. he grabbed the aluminum paddle and joined me in the center stage with the paddle he spanked me as I rode the sybian. I ended up having an orgasm though I really tried to hide it as best I could LOL. It was quite the experience and a very nice way to start the day I must say. We headed to walk around some more and things. Most of Friday was spent walking around and looking at the trade show and talking with a few models and people we knew. Here's those pictures









We attended two rope classes as well and Thomas got the chance to tie me up. That was alot of fun. I love being tied and love rope. Here's a pic of me in the ties after the class.








The second class we attended was also very interesting though I didn't get tied up in that one. I did get some good pictures of the models being tied up and as soon as I get permission and share them with the models Ill share them here. The one tie I think is really pretty and I want Thomas to practice doing. The good thing about him is he can see it done and learn quickly so he can probably do it. It looks really nice and I would love to have him practice on me.

After i went to work Friday night I ended up with pain in my left arm. I also ended up with the sniffles and felt really bad Saturday morning. I rested alot of the day though and called in sick to work. I slept till about five then had Katia take me to the convention to join Thomas. However i was still not feeling well wasn't able to do anything i wanted to. i did stop by the dungeon and watched a suspension and things but I was jealous because i could do it. I really wanted to play but with my arm hurting and feeling sick i couldn't have. We came home and I went right to bed again. Sunday morning I woke up still not feeling well. I called into work again because my arm was still hurting bad and i was worse off that day with the sickness I just couldn't do it. Thomas had a few shoots to go to that day so i slept while he went. I had planned on going to the last night fetish Ball but when the time came to get ready and go i just didn't feel up to it so i opted to stay home and rest. Hopefully next year I will not get sick because I plan on having alot of fun and maybe getting some shoots booked and things.

Monday was back to normal though when I picked up my kids my oldest was not feeling well and was running a high fever. I ended up having to call in sick to work again even though by that time I was feeling better I needed to get my son seen so we ended up both getting seen in the ER since I needed an excuse to go back to work. I was given antibiotics but my son was not given anything. His fever was 103 but no signs of what was wrong. Two of my children have kidney problems and he is one of them so anytime the complain of pain in their sides or that area accompanied with a high fever i get really worried. All his test came out okay though and we were sent home about 6 hours later LOL. hospitals are not known for fast service that is for sure. Her laid around all day Tuesday though and his fever spiked now and then but all I could do was give him fluids and Tylenol and Motrin like they said. He is doing better now so I believe he just had the flu or something. It is weird though because our kitten was sneezing and has eye yucks so she is sick as well. I had asked Thomas if Cats and humans could pass things but he said no and curious me asked the doctor as well because it just seemed odd we were sick and so was she. though my son and a commenter both seem to think and tell me the cat is male. my son changed her name to Garfield in case we will know soon after the vet appoint.

Since Fetish Con was not what I wanted it to be and not as fun due to being sick I was glad for the night out on Tuesday night with my co workers. We went to a local gay club here called Valentines. it was fun and I don't drink and neither did my other coworker. We meet a really hot dancer though and had a blast with him. My one co worker is very much gay though most of us were straight we still had a blast it is fun and we meet some very nice people.

I wish there was more to write on the spanking side of things. But sadly there isn't. I was too sick and we were too busy during the weekend when the kids were gone to even think about spanking play. I hope to get a night with Thomas soon. Though right now we have to save everything to make sure we can pull off the Big Party in three weeks. Throwing spanking parties is far from cheap LOL. I am hoping we will at least make half of the costs back though. I wish i could win the lottery then we can throw a big bash and not charge a fee I'm sure we will get lots of friendly folks that would want to come to a free spanking party I know I would. LOL

I have more to write about that but will tomorrow I wrote a book already LOL. we received a package from cane-iac with the free canes for the bash and other nice stuff to give away and set to raffle and things. Cane-iac also added a few goodies that are new items for us to try out. We will soon have news on how that test goes LOL. I love trying out new implements though these look pretty intense and mean.