Randomness again

So I haven't written much lately again. Life is very hectic for me as I have alot going on in both my vanilla and kinky world. Besides I have been a little under the weather and without a whole lot of energy. So I am not even sure where to begin. LOL. This post might be a little scattered though so fair warning.

I will probably go backwards and start with whats fresh in my mind. Last night I had off and I was able to head to a place called Wicked Wednesdays. It is a group that meets at a local bar and has a night where the bar is converted into a play space with some dungeon furniture and things. And it is a pretty relaxed atmosphere as well. Since I am not just into spanking I have alot of fun meeting and playing with others in the BDSM scene as well. And the people that run this event are very nice and friendly and we have a great time just socializing as well. It still kind of amazes me the differences in the scenes between spanking parties and BDSM events. But nonetheless both scenes have there ups and downs and I love it when we can mix the two. I'm still learning the differences and met some great people who are friendly and not afraid to help us out if we make a mistake. That's always a plus.

I have met a really sweet guy at the Wicked Wednesday that I try to play with each time. he has a violet wand and he really knows how to use it LOL. I enjoy the time with him and the wand and he is super sweet even without the wand. There is a running joke about how I just want his wand. Yes that's a plus but I also like him as a person as well LOL. I was able to experience the wand with him again last night. It is so relaxing and nice. Being in a bar though the music and things can be a distraction. But i tend to close my eyes and forget about the surroundings while we play. It is nice and I usually can. Last night though we couldn't stay as long as we usually do plus I'm on medicine that makes me super sensitive. But I enjoyed every minute of it. He also gives a massage with and without the wand so it is nice. I joke about wanting to bring him home with me all the time.

We also brought along a spanker with us. Jeremy just moved to the Tampa area and he attended our cookout. We had talked to him about the Wicked Wednesdays and a few things around Tampa. So when we knew we were going we asked if he wanted to join us. he had just started a new job and had to be up early so we made it a quick night. Leaving earlier then usual since it is over an hour drive to get home or there. Last night I actually spent more time driving then i did at the event. I left my house at 6:10 to pick up Jeremy and katia and we arrived at the event around 8:30. A few stops like for gas and sodas and we took a few minutes at Katias house. But it was still a long drive. we left the event around 11 and I got home about 1 something. So yes it is alot of driving to attend but so worth it.

The weekend before we had the Tampa Tanners cookout at picnic Island. this is where we meet Jeremy. He has a great personality and is alot of fun. At the picnic we were able to meet a few new faces and spent some quality time with other spanko friends we haven't seen in awhile. i always love when a new person joins us. I'll write a post about the picnic though I am just waiting on some pictures from it. It turned out to be alot more then we thought and a blast. So I have lots to tell about that event.

When we got to Wicked Wednesday we introduced Jeremy to some of the people we knew. And he was eager to play. LOL First he played pool with one of the others and we sat and talked to some of the people we have not seen in awhile. As soon as he got back though Jeremy was quick to grab my hand and lead me over to the couch for an OTK hand spanking. This is the first i got to experience his OTK spanking style and it was fun. After he warmed me up with his hand he lead me over to a spanking bench. And he had a paddle that Katia had gotten from Paddles and Panties. So we played with the paddle and a strap. Shortly after the spanking started Katia started bringing other implements over to him from out of her bag. So there was lots of spanking things going on she was quite helpful handing him canes, paddles, straps and even the blue rubber hose thing that is wicked. I had given it to her so it wouldn't be used on me LOL. Eventually another person also joined in the fun adding a different implement to the mix. It was some rubber like riding crop that was very thick. It is hard to explain but Jeremy wants one now. He asked if he could join in since he had two of them so him and Jeremy were both spanking me with those thing. It was alot of fun though and my bottom is still sore from the spanking and i like it. it has been a little while since I got to play since we didn't have a party this month and i seldom if ever get the chance to play with Thomas.

Speaking of play with Thomas we were able to get some play in the night before the BBQ. I got a really nice hand spanking and then some sexual play as well. it was nice to connect with Thomas again since we really tend to drift apart most of the time with the living arrangements. I tease him about needing a boyfriend and about how we live together but never get any time with each other. So having that playtime was really nice.

We are getting ready now for the Spooky Spanktacular event in October and I am getting ready to decorate the house. my daughter is coming home next week so i might just wait till she does so we can do it together. She has been gone for the last two years and i miss her greatly. So I can't wait to see her next Friday. I'll be pretty busy catching up with her and things and helping her find a school here.

So I have alot on my plate between her coming home, my sons at home, Tampa Tanners, work and alot more things. I will certainly try to keep up more I feel bad when I don't post and share the fun times we have lately.