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Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Tampa Tanners Spanking Masquerade June 25th 2011

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Saturday was a very busy day for us at Tampa Tanners. For me it started early in the morning when I got home at 7:30Am from working a ten hour shift. I couldn't go to sleep because I had alot I had to do that day and didn't think I would have time which I was kind of right LOL. I was running starting at 8:30. I had to shower and get everything ready to take to the Masquerade with us since we were going to be leaving straight from the Meet and greet. Adrenaline did be well that day because i didn't really seem tired i was going on excitement and I had plenty of it to keep me going.

Once I got the kids to the sitter and I went and picked up Katia then Thomas we headed home briefly to get ready. Thomas needed to shave and things so he stayed at home while Katia and i booked it to the Meet and greet almost late but we made it just in time. Todd and Suzy had made it early and we had called them to hold the greet down for us till we got there. There was another new face that had showed up as well and Todd and Suzy were talking to him when we set everything up. It ended up being a really good turn out which I am glad the last meet and greet memorial day weekend was not that great LOL. I think it had alot to do with falling on a Holiday.

People started showing up and we had a few friends join us that i have never meet before and a few that are Tampa Tanners regulars now LOL. Thomas called me right before I ordered to let me know he was ready so I left to go gt him and came back. There was Lot's of friendly conversation and things going on and it is always nice to chat with other Spankos. Todd and Suzy had also brought The custom Spankopoly board that they had made for Katia and we got to see that as well. They do a great job and I know that Katia will be very very happy with hers. For more information and to get a spankopoly board please visit American Spanking Society.






Since I was running on adrenaline and things I tend to get very giddy and silly. I had ordered a strawberry smoothie at TGIFS and when I bit into the strawberry I looked at it and saw an owls face so i had to share with everyone at the table. it was really cute and i wanted to take him home though i don't think he would have lasted long so I took a picture and will have to just keep that LOL.
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The Meet and Greet ended about 4Pm and we had been telling Todd and Suzy about the Todd adult store here in Tampa. So talk towards the end of the greet leaned towards going there. Red Palmer agreed to show them where it was and they all headed over there to have a look around. I think they enjoyed it as they brought to the hotel a few goodies and Suzy got her mask for the Masquerade. They even got Katia's present there.

Once we all arrived at the hotel it was some quick chatter and Todd and Suzy showing us what they got at the Todd. Katia got her present and Suzy asked her to use it at the masquerade party. it was a straw cup in the shape of a dick. Katia looked funny sippy her Pepsi out of a dick but it was funny because she was walking around holding it as we walked around the hotel and back and forth between the two rooms.




It was time though to start and get ready. This proved though to be quite a task for Katia and i LOL. The outfits that we picked were cute, But very difficult to put on LOL we needed help from Suzy quite a few times getting zipped up, buckled and putting on our thigh highs. It was quite an interesting event just getting ready lots of laughs and Katia and i looking like fools as we had to lay on our backs to pull our Thigh highs up then need Suzy to help us figure out the hooks and things. Lots of fun Thank goodness Todd was in his room and Thomas was asleep he missed all the fun we were having as we got ready. LOL

here's a pic of our outfits after we finally got them on. I was really self conscious of mine though as I have a very large bust and the corset pushed them up and almost busting out at the top. I played with the Boa trying to hide my boobage LOL. I finally got to where i was comfortable though.

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We didn't get a picture of us in the mask though which we thought we did but didn't some how LOL. Oh well walking through the hotel I felt very weird though but it was quite apparent that we were heading to a masquerade party since we all had our masks on our heads and things.

We headed over to the Phoenix Club a little early to meet with the managers of the Club and get set up with our goodies bags and things. it is a very nice place and they have it set up really nice. It was my first time in a dungeon though and i was like a kid in a candy store. I love alot more then spanking so it was amazing to me to see a real dungeon play space and they had lots of equipment. Before everyone showed up we quickly went to the Andrew cross and Todd tried out there new studded strap from the Todd. It was more for photo opps but he did give us each ten good ones. Here's a few pics from that.

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People started showing up and the party started at first it was alot of shaking hands and meeting everyone we had a few show up that we hadn't expected or known about yet but it was nice to meet them. For some though the whole dungeon atmosphere was very overwhelming. But alot of our members adapted really well and got to try out some new and exciting stuff.

We had some learning to do but we learned quickly and it was nice to mix the different dynamics of things for a night. It was not anything at all what we were used to though and it was a bit of a culture shock sorta to be in the moment and we were not sure really what we were supposed to do or how to get anything started so we just went with the flow and explored our surroundings a bit a few like Thomas though didn't play much because it was so different. One of members was totally freaked out but we since have talked to her and she has decided that the BDSM and dungeon scene is not her thing. We were thankful she at least gave it a whirl and came out to join us. here's a picture of Thomas napping not sure how he did that as the music was loud and there was alot of playing going on around him. Thomas has never been open to like dark and loud so he would never have a good time at any club setting even a vanilla one.

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Red Palmer is a Tampa Tanners regular he has a blast and is really good at spanking so he always gets alot of play. he jumped right in as well and he didn't waste anytime taking me across his knee when he got there. Unfortunately for my costume though as soon as I went over his lap my Boobies decided to pop out completely I was holding my boa close to my chest to cove them for quite awhile. A long time friend of ours was in town and decided to come and join us. Thankfully she had some clothes in her car and she lent me a shirt to put on. LOL

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There was lots of furniture and spanking benches. Red Palmer and I decided to try out one of the benches. I was never on one of these before so it was new and fun to try out. Red decided to grab my Tampa Tanners paddle and spank me with that while I was on the bench. here's a good picture of that.

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There was a couple that was part of the Phoenix Club that we had meet before and they wanted to come to see us again and we were happy to see them. They showed us a little about what they do and things and had some really nice toys that a few of our members got to try out. One was a single tail whip. Of course after seeing Suzy try it out I later got the nerve to ask them if I could try it out and so did Katia. This couple was a Master and Slave and his slave helped me out by showing me some of the toys getting some towels and setting up the bench we were going to use. we didn't know about the towels and things until this point though but they were really nice and she held my hand and talked me through things and helped him. After the whip we tried out a few things they had including some sensation play things. It was a wonderful experience. and I liked it very much. They are a really sweet couple and i was glad to have seen them again. She provided the aftercare and wrapped me in a blanket after we played and asked if I wanted water and things. That is something I wasn't quite used to and didn't understand i asked Thomas why I was wrapped in a blanket after we played and things and he told me that it was normal for the scenes that BDSM do and i can understand after the one scene we saw.

It was also mentioned to us that the BDSM group couldn't understand how we could talk to each other during scenes. Though for us we really don't scene. it is not uncommon in the spanking scene for everyone to be talking and bottoms playing patty cake or things while they are getting spanked and all that. So when we were across someones lap and talking to others they just couldn't understand. likewise we didn't understand that the play area was not a place to talk and goof around. Since different scenes were going on at different areas there was a light set that provided a line as to where you could converse and not bother the scenes going on. The Phoenix staff were really nice and came over and explained it to us though so we moved away. It isn't a big difference but there are more protocols and things that we just weren't used to in a dungeon setting then in a spanking party setting.

We didn't really know how things were going to be and we had planned for cake and presents and katias birthday spankings which we usually do in the middle or towards the end of our parties. but since alot of play had started and it interrupting a scene is not a good thing we ended up not having the cake and things because a few scenes were already underway. it was all good though We enjoyed our time and we will know next time a little bit better. It was our first time so we had alot to learn and take in at once but in all I think it worked out great and both groups interacted well.

At the party Marcelus showed up as well. We had met him when we went to a few munches and the fetish circuit. So it was nice to see some familiar faces in their crowd as well. marcelus though works with rope and as everyone knows I love bondage. though I am also very self conscious and never thought in a million years i would ever be caught taking my shirt off in public especially to let a guy tie me up. LOL. But I love rope and was very curious. So i agreed to go upstairs to a balcony that was semi private and do it but mentioned that I would not walk around without the shirt even after the rope dress. But I took a big step in doing it in the first place. I have heard alot of talk about subspace and things and I never understood it as I never went there before. But I think that I was very close to what might have been subspace when Marcelus was removing the ropes I know i felt different and was in my own little world as he was slowly removing them. he is very good at what he does and it was experience I can't wait to experience again. it was also very pretty and very comfortable i walked around the rest of the night till close to the end with the ropes on. But I had on my shirt my friend gave me LOL. here's a picture of that i am even sharing the front shot though I cropped it some and it is dark.

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Though we didn't do our usual party at the Phoenix club we had a very eventful and fun night. We met some really awesome people and learned some new things and got to experience alot. katia and i will most definitely be getting a membership and hope to go back again soon to learn more. It was an awesome time and the people are just as awesome. They had a very nice lasagna dinner and soda and things. Though I later found out I grabbed the wrong color cup I didn't know that the colors meant anything so I identified myself as a Top apparently. LOL That's another difference I noticed at both the munch and at the Phoenix club the colors. Blue is bottom or submissive and Red is for Top where as in our group we have it switched. Red is for bottom and blue is for top. So I always feel like a Top when i put a blue sticker on my tag LOL.

Red Palmer had a blast. Here's a good picture of the three of us Red, Katia and i at the club towards the end of night.

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People were starting to die down and we decided to head out. The thing that sucked was that Shy showed up shortly before we decided to head out. It was great to see her and her Daddy and friends though it was short and sweet this time around. Hopefully we will see her at the Tampa tanners fireworks party. Not really sure since weekends are the time she gets to spend with her daddy. But she is our young one and always will be LOL.

Here's a few more pictures from that night at the dungeon party.

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After we all left a few of us headed back to the hotel although I rode with Red Palmer and we got lost on the way. LOL. I am not good with directions but after passing the hotel on the hwy about two times we finally found out where to get off to get on the right road to actually get into the hotel.

The intent was to eat some cake and give Katia her birthday spankings. I am not sure how that worked out though as soon as it started and I was laying on the bed watching i feel asleep quickly the adrenaline just didn't work when i slowed down and laid on a bed I was out cold. I think it was close to 4 in the morning when everyone cleared out and Thomas Katia and I went over to our rooms to go to sleep. LOL
here's a pic I was given that I think I am still awake in but I fell out shortly after thats for sure so I missed most of the birthday spankings. But I got a few pictures.

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After we got a few hours of sleep Katia Thomas and I woke up early and headed to the breakfast at the hotel. The we went to see Todd and Suzy and of course we all played before saying our goodbyes.

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Of course since i slept the night before and Missed Katia getting her birthday spanks with a new implement made by Cane-iac she quickly mentioned That I haven't felt "The Satan" yet to Todd and that I had to try it out before I left. That thing is very evil I tell you. LOL

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I think there might soon be some video from that night and morning but not sure. I will share it if there is as well. I know i think some was taken but not entirely sure. Okay Todd uploaded one of the videos of the very first spankings at the phoenix Club so here it goes he did a nice job with it as well.



I ended up just giving Suzy her gift basket that we had gotten for her before she left. We never even got cake so we just split the cake in half and she took half home and i took half so we gave it to our familys as well LOL. Here's a picture of the cake and the gift basket theough LOL






Here is a picture as well of the extra mask I made and my mask though I never got any pictures of me actually wearing it. LOL
The Pink was for my costume and the purple was an extra one I made.



Monday, June 20, 2011

Time is getting close

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Things are getting close for alot of things that are happening. First thing is this weekend Tampa tanners will be joining the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club for a very special spanking Masquerade night. We are all really excited on both ends to be getting the chance to get together. Katia is celebrating her birthday that night as well and we will be going shopping for it this week sometime.

The other event also coming up soon is the very big Back To School Bash. Things are slow as far as getting people to register but I am still hopeful for that to pick up this month maybe. Ms Cali and I have corresponded through email and she sent me this link for a blog post that she wrote about the upcoming party and her thoughts on it. You can check it out here.

If you are planning on coming out and joining us for this event please make sure to visit our website and get those registrations in. Also if you would like to sign up for the spanking court filming you need to submit your case so that they can get their schedule worked out and you will know when you will be filming. According to what I know the money that they will pay for the cases will cover the cost of the party fees so really the traveling plans are all you would have to lose and you could and will have alot of fun.

I have most of the program worked out for the printers though if any vendors sign up Ill have to add them for it. This is really exciting and we have worked really hard to plan and bring this party to Florida for the spankos out there.

There are alot of options as far as getting your payment in for the fees. We started a paypal and you can also mail them to us at P.O. box 764 Brandon Florida 33509. If mailing a money order or check please make sure to write it out to Thomas Elders and get it in the mail in time to reach us by the August first cutoff for the registrations.

I'm still getting over this bronchitis but it is a slow process and the cough is annoying LOL. Nothing really to report about any spankings recently there is just so much going on that Thomas and I never have time to get away for even a few minutes. I am really hoping that I can find a sitter this weekend as our options have been really limited lately and the one that I was planning for them to have watched has moved to another state so they are not an option. But I am still trying as I really want to spend some time with Thomas as well and will feel really bad if he has to miss this masquerade.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

I've been sick

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I have been feeling under the weather for a few days and it got to the point that I needed to get checked out for I was fearful I might have had strep throat. I didn't have strep but I have bronchitis and that isn't any fun either. I went to the doctor and got some medicine and a few days of rest from work. Which hopefully will help but bronchitis takes a little while to get over I know from experience. At least I am not as worn down and feverish as I was when I went to the doctor.

It worked out that Katia was able to come and take me to the hospital that night. She took me to one I have never been to but will probably start using as it was a very quick in and out deal and they were very nice. We were there probably a total of 30 minutes till I walked out with the prescriptions and things. Beats the hours spent in other hospitals. Even though I wasn't feeling up to par that night we had to go to CVS to get my prescriptions filled and us being together in a store always leads to a purchase somehow LOL.

We needed soda for the house and it just so happens that CVS had it on sale. They had 2 liters of Pepsi for 88 cents which is a good deal. So i got the limit of five and so did Katia. Then as we were standing in the checkout line we noticed a bin with 90% off items. In that bin I found some really cute Halloween bags and instantly Thought of the Tampa Tanners Halloween party. So I bought all the bags LOL. They were usually 2 dollars and something but I got them for 25 cents which you cant beat that. It is a bit early but I like being prepared. LOL Katia said nothing like planning ahead when I mentioned I was getting them for Tampa tanners. Kind of have to wonder how we managed to come home with bags of things when we left to take me to the hospital because I was sick.

I think Katia and I have a new fetish.....Shopping LOL. Wish we had loads of money to do it often it does have a great feeling to it.

I have been working at advertising for the big party coming and righting some wrongs I felt needed righted. Not all of those went the way planned but I did manage to apologize to some people that I felt I had wronged before with some of the drama in the scene some accepted some didn't but I did as i felt I needed to and have made a conscious effort to refrain from all the drama and mud slinging going around lately.

Not much to write about on the spanking side of my life. I haven't gotten much play in because of being ill, because of the kid situation, because of working and things and all that jazz and all the things that interfere with my NEED LOL.

But I am so looking forward to the Masquerade party coming up on the 25th. Lots to do to plan though I need to find a sitter so that Thomas can join us because I would feel really bad if he had to stay home with the kids. Plus I need to call the hotel closer to the Phoenix Club and book our rooms. So I just wanted to pop in and let you know im still alive and still working at things LOL. Happy Spankings all!

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Spanking Masquerade

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On June 25th 2011 at 8PM Tampa Tanners will be joining the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club for a very special spanking masquerade party. I am really excited about it and Katia and I had the chance to go shopping for our outfits.We found matching pink corsets and got a pink and black boa and a little black skirt. I headed over to Michaels craft store last night since I had off and i got materials to make a mask with. I had looked around for a mask to buy but wasn't having much luck the ones i did find were pretty pricey and not really the look I wanted. I found what i needed at Michaels and headed home to be creative. LOL. I actually was worried at first that it wouldn't come out like I wanted it to. But the end result was amazing. I am really proud how my mask turned out.

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Now the only thing I have left to do is go shopping for Katia's birthday presents and cake. not sure what she wants yet but I will find out soon. LOL. Katia and i will be making her mask soon and i think I will make an extra one just in case since the masks come in packs of three and i got lots of feathers left over and paint.

I also was able to get another video made for the Tampa Tanners Back To School Bash. it is getting close and the excitement is building very fast. I'm heading to the local munch today hopefully Katia can join me. Thomas has to stay and watch the kids but I am really hoping that by the 25th I will have childcare worked out so that Thomas can join us in the fun. i have a plan that I have to get in motion though. Some friends of mine have moved to another area and I am hoping that the boys can stay with them that weekend so we can have a weekend to go to the party and maybe shoot some video as well. Ill have to work Friday night maybe though I did get this Friday off for some reason.

Ill let you all know how the party goes I cant wait but it is now only two weeks away. till the next party and it seems like it has been forever since we had our last party.

Friday, June 10, 2011

Busy Busy Bee

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Alot of things have been going on in my life both vanilla and spanking wise. We have alot to do to get the Back to School Bash going and have been having a blast with that. Some of it is work but it is fun work and we really enjoy doing it knowing that the party is going to be that much better each time we get something planned and ready. One of the fun things as well is making promotional videos. Katia, Shy and I recently got to meet with Niko and Casey to play and in doing so we also did a video that Niko posted on spanking tube for Tampa Tanners. At the same time we also got stress relief spankings from him which aren't on the tube yet. Shy's video is up though and she really is a sweet young spanko and alot of fun to be around. In this post I will be sharing a few of the videos as well.

I was also able to meet with Red Palmer at my house with Katia. Red Palmer is new to the scene and has been attending the Tampa Tanners events. He is a great guy and a very good spanker as well. Even with a newbie status he has a knack for it and can give quite a spanking. He was excited when I asked him if he wanted to shoot videos with me for Cookie Crawford's clipsand The Cookie Jar spanking library studiostore.

Neither one of will ever claim to be an actor though but we used a roleplay type scene to give a reason for the spanking. It actually was quite funny and more humorous then serious but the spanking that followed was certainly not funny. LOL. He used a few implements and we even ended up breaking a wooden spoon type implement during the scene. I had him sign the broken implement as a memento. It was a great fun day and he stayed for awhile after playing with my kids and I got a funny picture of him in a hat my son has. As we speak I am uploading the combo video to the store but the videos are now available at Cookie Crawford's clipsand The Cookie Jar spanking library studiostore. If you are one that likes to see real spanko's having a good time and some serious spanking action then these videos are for you.

There has been some things going on in my life with the kids and Thomas that aren't as happy and fun but they only deserve a quick mentioning to let you all know why I have been moody and up and down lately. Most of them are being worked out so no worries the storm will past as it always does.

Last night I had off work and when I got into bed beside thomas who was already resting he got up and grabbed a cane and my ponytail and took me across his lap for some spanking play. The cane is really the only implement that we can use in the house. It is quiet enough not to wake up sleeping kids. For play it is not that bad though I still don't really like the cane but it is was nice to have some play with my partner since we rarely get that. After the caning he put me to sleep with some other play and i slept like a baby all night. There is something about spanking and sexual play that is relaxing and makes for a really good way to put someone to bed. LOL

I hope that you enjoy the videos and pictures today. We are getting ready for our June party though it is a little different then the other parties we have had. We are having our spanking masquerade party at the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club. I am really excited about that and I am eager to meet the people from the club. I heard good things about them and they seem like a friendly bunch. Plus it is a local dungeon so there is the opportunity for more then just spanking at this party. Plus it is Katia's birthday so we will certainly have plenty to celebrate and lot's of spanking going on.

Katia and i had a girls night out one night when I didn't work we headed to the Todd to do some shopping though we weren't really planning to buy anything just get out and have some fun because we both have been under alot of stress lately and getting out together always picks us up and gives us both some relief from the stress. We ended up though spending alot LOL. We both got matching outfits for the masquerade and it was alot of fun trying on the corsets. The sales person was very helpful and she really helped us. My size though is awkward as I am very top heavy LOL and not proportioned well. So finding a corset that fit me was a little more difficult. We finally were able to find one that will work though it really accents my top part and I am not used to that. But Katia helped me feel okay with it and I think I will do alright. Ill have pictures as well once we get to the party and things. We still need to work on our masks but I will probably go out tonight to get some of my material for that.

This Tuesday I had planned to go to a local girls night out party. I have always had Tuesdays off so I really didn't think I had to ask for that night off so I didn't and was just planning to go. That was until the schedule came out and for some reason of all the Tuesdays she could have scheduled me she put me on the schedule for that Tuesday and gave me tonight off instead. I was not happy because now I can't go to the party. I cant very well try to get it off either because I ask for enough days off to go to our own parties and don't want to push it with the job. But I am really bummed I cant go. Hopefully there will be another one soon. and ill actually have off this time.

Well I guess I rambled long enough LOL. Here's the videos starting with the Red Palmer previews and then the Tampa Tanners Niko video and Shy's stress relief spanking. Hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making them!!!!





To see the full 18 minute and 10 minute videos please visit Cookie Crawford's clipsand The Cookie Jar spanking library studiostore.




For more information on Tampa Tanners or to sign up for this awesome party please visit Tampa Tanners website.



To contact Niko for a session please email Niko at tanyourbottom@aol.com
Niko will also be in attendance at the Back To School Bash! We look forward to having him there!

Wednesday, June 8, 2011